Nonna Grishaeva is sick with what disease. Nonna Grishaeva: “Who is younger, me or my husband is a big question”

Three years ago you became artistic director Moscow Regional Youth Theater. Why do you, a sought-after actress, have such a heavy burden?

Yes, it’s not easy, but I don’t regret it for a second. The fact is that I really love children and perceive theater as real enlightenment. This is very important, in my opinion. And then, despite being in demand, I didn’t always have the opportunity to play the roles I dreamed of. Here I can make my desires come true: this happened, for example, with “Lady Perfection” and “Five Evenings”. And everyone only benefited from this - both me and the theater.

Was your role in the play “About My Mother and About Me,” for which you received the “Theater Star” award, also your dream?

Not really. I knew nothing about the existence of this play, but after reading it, I immediately realized that it needed to be staged. And that it is very important for me to play in it. This is a smart, subtle and, most importantly, very useful play by Elena Isaeva, whose relationships are sometimes, to put it mildly, difficult. In it, a mother helps her daughter choose life path, and a daughter to her mother - in search of a loved one, in general, they are true friends.

- Do you and your daughter have the same warm relationship? She's quite an adult.

Yes, exactly like that. I have always believed that a child should not be a teacher, but a friend. It is important that children do not hesitate to talk to mom and dad about what really concerns them. And if you read lectures all the time, then how can there be frankness?

- But parents also have controlling and protective functions. How can all this be combined with friendship?

It's difficult, but I can do it. The main thing is to find it from the very beginning Right way, and not look for it when the child turns 15 years old. For example, every vacation I tried to go somewhere with Nastya alone. We talked and we both enjoyed it immensely.
and, naturally, behaved like girlfriends.

- Did you really manage to get by without comments and various “don’ts”?

Yes. Just from the very early childhood I didn’t forbid, but explained why you shouldn’t do this or that. A child is not a fool, he will understand, he just needs to make an effort and spend time. Our children are now suffering from gadget mania. And the parents are to blame for this: the mother hands the child an iPad with games, and she goes off to chat with her friend. And children need to pay attention. A lot of attention. I still, no matter how tired I am, read to my son at night (although he himself has long been able and loves to read). Now, for example, “The Lonely Sail Is White” by Valentin Kataev. This is as important and natural as praying to your baby before bed.

- Do you raise your son as loyally as you raise your daughter?

Even more loyal (laughs). It was easier with Nastya, after all, it is always easier for girls to understand each other. For boys, everything is completely different, it is a separate planet. And some incredible love. With Ilya, I’m probably too soft, but it just doesn’t work out any other way. Sasha ( Alexander Nesterov - husband of Nonna Grishaeva) is sometimes strict.

- Are you arguing about Ilya’s upbringing?

We do not always agree on these issues. For example, my son asked for a tablet for his 10th birthday. Grandfather, grandmother and father chipped in and gave him this gadget. And I refused to participate in this on principle! I came up with my own gift - a quest “ star Wars" And a book, of course.

- Family, cinema, theater... How do you have enough for everything?

Lacks. The body doesn't always cope. The musical "Judy" recently premiered director Alexey Frandetti), in which I play the famous Hollywood actress Judy Garland. I’ve probably been working towards this role all my life. The rehearsal period was difficult, and before graduation I was so tired that I got sick.

- Your heroine in this play, by the way, is also not very healthy.

Yes, I’ve already thought about the fact that roles magically influence my life: the same things begin to happen to me as to the heroines.

- For example?

Before I got married for the second time, I wore Wedding Dress. Garland, as you rightly said, was ill, and I went to the hospital before the premiere. And she went on stage literally from under an IV.

- This is already serious. Do you want to slow down a little?

My family constantly tells me what I need. We have now moved to Vacation home and we live with my husband’s parents: so, they are simply shocked by how much I work. And they try to help in every possible way.
Despite the frantic pace of life, you look wonderful.

If I have a little time, I go to the SPA, I love it. If not, creams and masks help out.

You recently became the face of the Black Pearl line. Self-rejuvenation." Which of the presented products did you like best?

The whole “Self-Rejuvenation” line is interesting, but if I were to choose what I especially liked, I would name two products. The first is a night cream mask. It has an enhanced effect, nourishes the skin and smoothes out the texture, and most importantly, it works while I sleep. Secondly, BB cream: it perfectly matches the skin color and has a rejuvenating effect. Similar remedy I haven't met it yet.

- From the outside it seems that you succeed in everything, no matter what you undertake. Are you a lucky person?

Yes, definitely! The point, however, is not only about luck, but also about the fact that I have always worked hard and honestly. And she made compromises, even when she wanted to turn around and leave.

-Have you ever regretted it?

Compromises can save the most difficult situation, you can’t go anywhere without them. At the same time, I am Cancer according to the horoscope, so I am terribly touchy: I react even to minor reasons. The worst thing is betrayal, but even that you must find the strength to forgive. Sometimes it takes years, but when you manage to let go of the grudge, . Apologizing, by the way, is even more difficult for me than forgiving, but I force myself to do it. And I recommend it to everyone.

Blitz

✓ If I have free time, I try not just to spend it with my family, but to give the children a real holiday.

✓ I’ll take my plays with me on vacation. I need to read them for work, but in Moscow I don’t have time to do this.

✓ The city in which I always feel good is Odessa.

✓ I don't dream of a specific role. Recently, two cherished desires came true - I played Tamara in Five Evenings and Judy Garland.

✓ What I fear most is war.

✓ If I were asked to make three wishes, I would limit myself to two: let there be peace and let the children not get sick. Third, I somehow do it myself.

Her career is rapidly moving up. She is strong, but at the same time charming and gentle. How does she manage to stay fragile woman in conditions of total employment?

Series " father's daughters", project "Two Stars" and comedy show Channel One's "Big Difference" did their job: Nonna turned into one of the most sought-after actresses Russian cinema, and her children - Nastya and Ilyusha - now see their star mother less often.

CHINA TOWN FOR A STAR
Nonna, answer the question that torments most women: how to realize yourself in a profession, create happy family and still remain attractive?

I admit, I’m also still looking for an answer to this question. (Laughs.) All Last year I live under time pressure: filming “Daddy’s Daughters” took so much time that my family lost me: in the morning I barely had time to say hello to the children before a company car took me to the set, and when it brought me back at night, everyone in the house was already asleep.

So there is a crisis in the country, but you have more work?
Exactly. I thought that I would rest in the spring, when filming was over. But that was not the case - she could not refuse to participate in the “Two Stars” project, and it required monstrous energy costs. When Mark Tishman and I were sued and our couple was on the verge of relegation, I was terribly nervous. I understand: yes, it’s a game, no big deal, but I still freaked out. On nervous soil my legs even cramped. It's time to go on stage, but I can't get up. Dima Pevtsov was nearby, he ran up and began massaging my calves...

Did it help?
Yes, after a couple of minutes I put on my heels and went on stage. Only after some time everything happened again. I realized that this was a signal. After the final, I said to myself: “Enough!” and went to the sea with my family. My mother had just heard from friends about a famous hydropathic clinic in China and invited me to fly there. I thought about it and agreed. I admit, for the first time in my life I took care of my health, so I have nothing to compare it with, but still, I consider what Chinese doctors do as a miracle. It’s a pity that I was running out of time: instead of the required two weeks, I spent only 9 days in the hospital. But I still came out of there as a completely different person - not a trace of fatigue!

How were you restored?

Massages, wraps, acupuncture, baths from morning to evening... The procedures flowed into one another, and then it was time for dinner and sleep. I arrived at the hospital in such a disorganized state that insomnia began. At an appointment with an acupuncturist I told about this. The elderly Chinese man nodded: “It’s okay, you’ll sleep well today.” And indeed, as soon as my head touched the pillow, I fell into the sleep of a baby, and in the morning I wanted to fly, it was so easy and good. Another time I complained: “Here are the wrinkles on my forehead... I’ll have to do Botox.” The doctor remarked: “But this is of no use” - and placed several needles around the perimeter of the forehead. Amazing! Within a week, my forehead smoothed out completely.

Which procedure made the strongest impression?
I was shocked by the baths. One room is lined with natural agate and jade, another with crystal, the third with clay, and between them are pools with mineral water of different temperatures. I learned that clay has a beneficial effect on blood vessels, and jade harmonizes the energy of yin and yang... But the biggest revelation is a pool with tiny fish, which the Chinese use instead of peeling. Both ticklish and funny!

CLOSER TO THE BODY
Nonna, you admitted that you consider stem cells a panacea for many diseases and even store them in a hemobank...
Yes it is. When I was pregnant with Ilyusha, I read an article about stem cells, from which all other cells in our body are formed, and thought that it would be a sin not to take advantage of such a chance. When our son was born, we stored umbilical cord stem cells and now know that the health of all members of our family is reliably protected. On top of that, it is an excellent rejuvenator. I believe that the achievements of progress must certainly be used, especially when we're talking about about health.

It's autumn. How do you protect yourself from seasonal colds?
This fall there is only one prevention - Chinese tonic supplements. I trust science that is over a thousand years old. And for the rest - cold water I don’t shower myself, I don’t do sports. After giving birth, I went to the gym for exactly a month and quit - I didn’t have time. But for now I don’t need exercise equipment (smiles): my muscles are toned, excess weight No. I eat a lot, even at night, but I never gain weight; I burn calories at work. I try not to eat potatoes with meat, because it’s harmful, but if I’m hungry, I’ll eat that too, I won’t be capricious.

RELAX IN GRISHAEVSKY
Nonna, for you, relaxation is, first of all, what?

Take a bath with foam and essential oils, lie down, without thinking about anything, for about twenty minutes. Although, as you know, it is better not to strain at all. But how? Eternal rush, vanity, fear of being late or not being on time and the problem of a big city - traffic jams. Although I've been driving a car for a long time, Lately I travel with a driver. And as soon as I sit down in the salon, I immediately fall asleep! Chronic lack of sleep has taught me to sleep anywhere and at any time. Moreover, neither light nor noise disturbs me.

You have long and very well-groomed hair. How do you take care?
I bring hair masks from everywhere I go. I do my makeup and haircut at home, although, of course, not with my own hands - my make-up artist comes and makes me look beautiful. And I do the masks myself: I wash my hair, apply the product, wrap myself in a towel and do household chores. I'm ordinary woman, time, like everyone else, is running out. I even do my own manicure.

Don't like beauty salons?
Driving through traffic jams to the salon and returning back is like half a day. I can't afford that luxury. Only when I notice that my face has become completely unimportant do I run to my cosmetologist and surrender myself to her magic hands. She famous doctor, many actors turn to her. It was recommended to me when I sang in the musical “The Witches of Eastwick”, and suddenly my hair began to fall out terribly. The producer said: “Go to my Raya, she will do everything” - and she was not mistaken. Before starting a procedure or treatment, Raisa always takes a blood test to know exactly what the body needs.

And what does your body need at the moment?
For now I’m not doing anything drastic to myself - just regular care. I hope that by the time the face needs serious restoration, doctors will come up with something more gentle than plastic surgery.

I'm afraid of the scalpel because I only know two people who haven't been harmed by it.

I am wary even about such popular surgeries as lip or breast augmentation today. I haven’t seen any successful experiments yet.

STOP ON DEMAND
How do you maintain your optimism? What do you tell yourself when you are tired and miss the children you see little of?
Recently I began to understand: no matter how busy I am, no matter what projects are offered and no matter what they promise for them, I need to stop running at least for a short time, otherwise you won’t last long. You need to take care of yourself. In August, I suspended all projects and, according to a long-standing tradition, left with my children to my homeland, Odessa. Three weeks of bliss! I rented a house on the coast, in the morning we had breakfast and went to the sea, slept in the afternoon, then swam in the pool and played. I still had time to go to construction market for materials for renovating my mother’s Odessa apartment. In the evenings I met with friends, and when it got dark, I went home and put the children to bed myself. Ilyusha asked every time: “Mom, will you bye-bye with me?”, and was happy when I said: “Well, of course.” This is a novelty for him - he usually falls asleep with his grandmothers or dad.

Do you think the microclimate in the family needs to be specially built or should everything be natural, even if not without conflicts?
Of course, we need to build it. And as for conflicts... We have a large family: my husband and I, two children, and my mother and husband still live in the same apartment. Of course, we can flare up, but humor has always saved Odessa residents. We immediately turn any complaint or omission into a joke.

Are you not at all burdened by the burden of popularity that many of your colleagues complain about?
Well, I can’t afford some feminine weaknesses like long shopping trips or talking with a friend over a cup of coffee. But it's not that scary. There is simply no time left for such things - I try to spend every free second with the children. Family is everything to me.

Nonna Grishaeva is grateful to God for having the gift of making people laugh. According to the actress, many colleagues suffer from the fact that they receive extremely serious roles and are therefore perceived as sharp-character performers.

Actress Nonna Grishaeva

Grishaeva prefers to transform into heroes who personally resonate with her.

“I can’t do it otherwise, I won’t evil person. I imitate everyone with love. Maybe that’s why people like it so much.”

But the actress has proven more than once that she is capable of playing women with difficult fate, reflective, deeply worried.

Childhood and youth

Nonna Valentinovna Grishaeva was born on July 21, 1971 in Odessa in an ordinary family. The great-grandfather and great-grandmother of the future artist were famous opera singers at the prestigious La Scala. My mother is an engineer, my father worked on a dry cargo ship. Little Nonna showed Creative skills and already at the age of 5 she starred in films, and at the age of 10 she appeared on the stage of the operetta theater in her native Odessa.

Nonna attended ballet school and early years dreamed of becoming a great actress. At the end high school the girl decided to enter a theater university and went to Moscow. Upon arrival in the capital of Russia, Grishaeva passed the competitive selection for the Shchukin School the first time, but Nonna’s mother was afraid to leave her daughter alone in big city and took her back to her native Odessa. There Grishaeva entered School of Music to the vocal department.

In her first year of study, the girl had the opportunity to visit the Russian capital again, where she went on tour with her classmates in the production of “The Princess and the Pea.” The student performance had an impact big success, and Odessa students performed 53 performances on the theater stage.

This work Nonna Grishaeva proudly calls her baptism of fire. After the tour, the girl’s desire to study at Shchuk became a global goal, and Nonna still managed to persuade her parents to let her go to Moscow.

In summer future star cinema and theater again applied to the prestigious theater university, where Nonna was remembered from last year. Grishaeva was accepted immediately into the 3rd year at the department of V.V. Ivanov. The artist’s student life took place during the difficult times of perestroika, when food rationing was a normal occurrence in the country. The artist remembers these hungry years with horror, when her mother fed her with food packages from Odessa, which ran out in just a few days.

Due to financial difficulties, the aspiring actress went to work on the popular TV show “Oba-Na” at that time, where she gained her first experience working on television and achieved significant popularity, thanks to which she began to receive a lot of interesting work offers.

Films and theater

In 1994, the young artist successfully graduated from the Shchukin Higher Theater School, after which she immediately received three offers to work in the theater. Choosing between “Satyricon”, “Lenkom” and the theater named after, Nonna Valentinovna preferred the latter option, while simultaneously acting in films. Grishaeva’s first films were “First Strike”, “Countess de Monsoreau” and “Place on Earth”.

For the first year theatrical career the actress has played quite a lot of roles in theatrical productions: “Ali Baba and the Forty Thieves”, “Princess Turandot”, “The Tricks of Scapin”. However, Grishaeva never received that cherished role that would have brought her great success.

Almost 10 years passed until Nonna managed to win audience sympathy and recognition. Success was brought by the main role of Denise played in 2004 in the production of “Mademoiselle Nitouche”, which, at first glance, seemed to be specially written for Grishaeva.

She became a laureate theater award edition “Moskovsky Komsomolets” “For the best female tandem”. A year later she received the title “Honored Artist of the Russian Federation.”

In 2014, the actress took over as director of the Moscow regional theater young viewer, where she also plays roles in the musical “Lady Perfection”, the plays “The Seagull” and “Five Evenings”. For the sake of the stage, Grishaeva refused to participate in television projects, but continued to collaborate with Quartet I - she played in Election Day and Radio Day. In addition, she took part in the film adaptations of these enterprise productions, where her heroine was called Nonna.

After the triumph on the theater stage, the actress’s career was followed by filming. In 2006, Nonna Grishaeva played key roles in the films and sitcoms “Lyuba, Children and the Factory”, “Who’s the Boss”, “Silver Lily of the Valley”.

In the youth film “Club 69” about the adventures of the administrator of an entertainment establishment, Grishaeva appeared in the image of the hero’s wife. In the comedy “Money Day,” the actress became the on-screen husband. The husband and friends - these roles also went to Denis Yasin - found $33 thousand lost by the crime boss on a spree. And from that moment on, the company began to have problems.

In 2008, Nonna joined film crew television series "", in which she played main role throughout all seasons. The image of a mother of five daughters brought the artist the “Woman of the Year 2009” award in the “Smile of the Year” nomination, “Golden Eagle 2009” in the “Best” category female role on television”, “TV Star” in the category “Favorite Actress”.

In the same year, the woman began to try her hand at television. The audience remembered popular show“Big Difference”, in which Nonna Grishaeva became one of the first persons of the television project. On the stage of “Big Difference,” the artist flawlessly embodied fifty representatives of the elite. Her works were parodies of and, and, and. And she wanted to make a program about the actress who portrayed her so reliably.

We couldn’t do without Grishaeva’s program “ glacial period", "Thank God, you came!", "Minute of glory", "Two stars", "One to one."

However, Nonna did not forget about roles that were far from parodies. The actress received a small role in romantic comedy“The Irony of Love” with, and. The film, shot in Moscow and Kazakhstan, was about a girl who dreams of becoming a TV star. A friend offers to help the heroine, but on the condition that she seduces the first man who enters the cafe. It turned out to be Chadov’s hero, a sports massage therapist. The difficulty was that young man The main place in life is occupied by the mother. A woman throws all her strength into protecting her beloved child from her young rival.

In the military drama “Serving the Soviet Union!” Nonna showed remarkable dramatic talent, transforming herself into singer Taisiya Meshcherskaya. The plot is built around the relationship of the artist with an army officer performed by. The events take place on the eve of the war, in a camp where a soldier who has become disliked by the authorities and a girl who has refused attention to herself end up.

Grishaeva played another actress in the TV series “An Unimaginable Life.” In the film, Nonna took care of the heroine and introduced her to her future husband, whose role she got.

The musical film “Dance with Me” attracted Grishaeva because it was “ eternal history the love of young people against whom everyone is up in arms.” Nonna's character is mom main character Katya, whose role was played by Anastasia Novikova. An eccentric lady, a failed artist, believes that her daughter should marry a rich producer. And the girl falls in love with a simple dancer.

The romantic film “A Man with a Guarantee” confirmed that social status not important for true love. Nonna Grishaeva, in the image of the owner of a retail chain, in the finale marries the store security guard, played by.

The heroine of Grishaeva in the melodrama “SMS” is a careerist who has set herself the goal of obtaining a significant position. The understanding that there is another life besides work comes to the girl after she receives an SMS message sent by someone by mistake.

In the series “Consequence of Love,” Nonna Grishaeva played a divorced mother of three children, who manages to raise her offspring and investigate crimes. In the role ex-husband appeared in the role of boss and new admirer -.

The character Nadezhda Polyakova turned out to be close to the performer. Grishaeva admitted that she is the same crazy mom, and in life she happens to be guided by her inner voice, intuition, just like an on-screen investigator.

Personal life

Personal life Nonna Grishaeva looks like a fascinating love story. 3 days after graduating from a theater university, the young artist married an actor and musician. Over time, the woman became disillusioned with her beloved. In 1996, daughter Nastya was born, but this happy event did not improve relations with her husband, and the actress filed for divorce.

Then Grishaeva’s heart was won by a certain businessman, whose name Nonna does not name. The couple lived in a civil marriage, during which the man gave the artist a mansion on Nikolina Gora, a car, and a boat.

Fortunately, my friend Masha interfered. Nonna, who instantly lost faith in love and friendship, ended up in the hospital with a nervous breakdown, but eventually forgave both. However, the homewrecker never married Grishaeva’s companion.

Despite unsuccessful previous relationships, Grishaeva did not lose faith and hope in great love. However, after meeting with actor Alexander Nesterov, she did not immediately understand that this was her destiny.

At first future husband Nony became her “best friend” and morally helped her cope with depression after a broken relationship. And after some time, Alexander Nesterov and Nonna Grishaeva got married in Prague, and in 2006 they became the parents of a son, Ilya.

The birth of a child did not affect the actress’s appearance. Nonna openly said that she just worked out on a home gym, and dancing and swimming help to maintain her figure. In addition, Grishaeva gave up meat, pasta and alcohol, although she considers herself a gourmet. While traveling, the couple explores local cuisine.

Nonna’s husband is 12 years younger, but this does not prevent him from being a real strong support for his wife, helping her as a director to overcome various difficulties in her career. Nesterov became the ideal father for the daughter of his beloved woman from his first marriage.

In 2015 over happy marriage Nonna and Alexander were in danger - the media actively discussed Grishaeva’s love affair with, with whom the actress played the main roles in the production of “Warsaw Melody”. According to employees and acquaintances of the actors, they were close not only on stage, but also behind the scenes.

Dmitry and Nonna appeared together at events, in restaurants, and went on vacation abroad. The actors categorically refused to comment on the rumors, claiming that there could be no talk of any romance between them, because Nonna is married, and Dmitry Isaev is married to ballerina Olga Rozhok.

The betrayal to her husband was forgiven, and the couple continued to live together. Alexander loves his wife, he understood and forgave everything. According to the actress’s colleagues, Nesterov insisted that Nonna and Dmitry not intersect at all film set, neither in theater projects. And as if Grishaeva accepted this condition. However, a number of media reported that ex-lovers after a while they continued to play in enterprises.

The actress believes that children are the most important thing in the life of every woman. On this occasion, Nonna showed talent in a new role and presented the book “Advice for Daughters,” the circulation of which was about 25 thousand copies. Nonna Grishaeva’s book has gone through two reprints and is still in great demand among readers.

Throughout acting career the artist did not miss the opportunity to perform as a singer. I recorded several own songs, in particular “Tango”, “Summer”, “Night Again”, “Comme toi”, “Platinum Paradise”. In 2012, Nonna Grishaeva released her first solo album.

Filmography

• 1995 – “Moscow Holidays”
• 2006 – “Money Day”
• 2007 – “Election Day”
• 2007-2011 – “Daddy’s Daughters”
• 2008 – “Radio Day”
• 2010 – “The Irony of Love”
• 2012 – “A Man with a Guarantee”
• 2012 – “Personal life of investigator Savelyev”
• 2014 – “Boatswain Chaika”
• 2015 – “I’ll get married urgently”
• 2015 – “Unimagined Life”
• 2016 – “Dance with me”
• 2017 – “Consequence of Love”
• 2017 – “The Mole in the Web”
• 2018 – “From the Bottom of the Top”

Two and a half years have passed since Nonna Grishaeva headed the Regional Youth Theater - a rather rare phenomenon among women. The actress herself takes her position calmly. “It seems to me that there is nothing exotic about this: women are generally more resilient in life than men, not only morally, but also physically, so we will still fight here,” Grishaeva noted.

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According to Nonna, she has a complete feeling that she comes to the theater like home. “The artists have become very friendly. We do skits, have get-togethers, and at these moments we feel like we are one big family. We recently played another “theater” wedding. This is already the seventh social unit in our theater,” the artist boasted.

Grishaeva noted that the atmosphere in the theater makes her happy. "What I hate most is intrigue - it's the worst thing in acting profession, so I’ll nip any attempts in the bud - this won’t happen in our theater!” Nonna categorically stated.

Despite the fact that it would seem that Regional Youth Theater With a rather limited repertoire, Grishaeva does everything in her power to diversify it. “We must produce from three to five productions per year, depending on funding. And here it is important to distribute it so that the repertoire includes performances for children, teenagers, and adults. But I want everyone, regardless of age the viewer learned something good. There are so many problems in our life, so much grief, that sometimes we don’t have enough ordinary spiritual light to spread good, that’s the task of our theater,” quotes Nonna Grishaeva.

Recently famous actress Nonna Grishaeva, together with her daughter Anastasia (21 years old) and 10-year-old son Ilya, took part in the show new collection brand "NASHE". Nonna Grishaeva’s children paraded down the catwalk in fashionable looks, and after the show, the actress shared with 7ya.ru readers tips on raising children, and talked about family and fashion.

- Nonna, you said that you have radically revised your views on life priorities, is that true?

This is true. In my youth, my career was in the first place; I literally lived by my creativity. But a long time ago, with the birth youngest son Ilya, I managed to set my priorities correctly. Career rapidly took off - success, high-profile projects, fame. Now family for me is the most important thing in life.

- What advice can you give to women who are unable to combine caring for their family and building a career?

There is only one piece of advice - find a middle ground. Of course, in order to continue pursuing a career, you need a grandmother or a good nanny, but you should not forget that no one will ever replace a child’s mother. You need to find time, days, hours, weeks to be with your child. With my crazy busy schedule, this is incredibly difficult for me, but I adjust the filming and performance schedules to fit around the children’s holidays, which gives us the opportunity to spend all our free time together.

- How did you meet your husband?

My daughter from my first marriage, Nastya, and I went to a children's New Year's play at the Quartet I theater, where my future husband Alexander Nesterov played the role of Little Bear. This was the day we met. We began to communicate, but there was no thought about any romance. Just a sincere person, without falsehood, kind, sympathetic, with great feeling humor, became my friend.

We have absolutely trusting relationship, we often called each other, chatted a lot, Sasha came to visit us with Nastya. But I didn’t take it seriously - unlike Sasha. We went on vacation to Thailand and it was there that we realized that we loved each other. Soon Sasha proposed to me, giving me a beautiful ring with an engraving: “From Nesterov with love!” So we got married. The wedding, at Sasha's request, took place in the center of Prague.

- Your husband is 12 years younger than you. Didn't this bother you?

To be honest, in the first couple of days this embarrassed me very much and brought discomfort to our relationship. But now all the complexes have passed, and this is Sasha’s merit. He often says that I act like a 25-year-old, so who is younger than who? big question.

Alexander Nesterov and Nonna Grishaeva in the theater at the premiere of the musical "The Inspector General"

Now you are participating in Alexander’s theatrical productions, and you came to the fashion show with your children. Is it easy for you to work with family members?

We are very comfortable working together. Sasha and I understand each other perfectly. My husband just had the premiere of the new musical comedy “The Inspector General” at the theater. I dropped everything and was with him for two weeks. She helped, supported, gave advice and was just there. We have absolute mutual support and understanding, which greatly helps our cause. And participating in any projects with Nastya and Ilya is a pleasure for me.

- How do children treat each other?

Nastya and Ilya get along well, help each other, they still have common interests, despite the ten-year age difference. And we maintain sincere and trusting relationships with both our daughter and son. We talk openly on any topic, we are always in touch, even at a distance we call each other a hundred times. I believe that parents should participate in every possible way in the lives of their children and help them in everything - in fulfilling their desires, in developing their talents. But it is important to know when to stop and not impose your opinion.

Graduation exhibition in London: Pushkin, “The Golden Cockerel”, costume of the Shamakhan Queen

- What are your children interested in?

Surprisingly, both of them developed the ability to draw. Ilyusha is passionate about painting and playing the saxophone. And Nastya, having graduated with honors art school, studied at college in Cambridge, graduated from the University of London, Faculty of Illustration and Graphics. She will have to make a choice where to subsequently realize her talent: to become a designer, theater artist or work in animated films. My daughter recently returned to Russia and now we are finally living together in a country house.

- Are your children’s childhood going the way you wanted?

Yes, precisely with our move out of town. Country life is such a blessing when your children breathe fresh air, spend time not on the sofa with a gadget, but in active games. In addition, for Ilya we found an absolutely amazing school near our house. Every day the child says: “Mom, thank you for this school!”, but for me it’s like a balm for the soul. By the way, school in my own childhood was my nightmare; I hated it with all my being. The words “physics” and “mathematics” evoked extreme disgust.

- Does your husband take part in raising children?

Certainly. Sasha is an amazing father, he is very kind to his children, I was surprised that in his young years he has such a developed paternity instinct. We adhere to a single policy in education, and, it seems to me, we have very good results.

- Formulate the basic principles of raising a child.

These are the principles of my heroine in the play “Lady Perfection” - you need to be strict, but kind. This very clearly characterizes me as a mother.

- What should parents do if raising their child does not bring the desired results?

Under no circumstances should you raise your hand to a child; I think this only triggers the reverse process. You can negotiate with anyone, find mutual language, you can always explain why something is impossible or bad. You need to work with your child, read books to him, and not give him a gadget to get rid of it for a while and go about your business. You need to understand that all this will come back to haunt you with such force in the future that it’s even scary to imagine.

- What would you like to protect your children from?

Now is such a difficult time... I would like to protect my child from everything that could cause harm, from unwanted acquaintances, and anger.

Nastya listens to me very much. She will always ask my opinion on what clothes she should buy, because she knows that mom has good taste. We often go shopping with the whole family: we choose clothes, consult on what suits whom, in general, we have fun.

- Is shopping the best therapy for a woman?

Definitely, for me personally - the best. IN good store I can spend forever.

- Are you a connoisseur of brands or do you prefer stylish clothes regardless of the brand?

I prefer exclusive clothes, original cut and tailoring, mostly models from Russian designers. I have a lot of such clothes, and without these things my wardrobe is not a wardrobe. It is important to me that the clothes I buy are the only ones I have.

At social events you can often be seen in elegant dresses that highlight your beautiful figure. IN ordinary life Do you prefer to always look perfect or can you afford to be cozy in comfortable clothes?

Of course, I also wear comfortable clothes, but they must certainly be beautiful and of high quality. And I apply this rule not only for myself, but also for the whole family.

- Can we say that after 45 life is just beginning? What's your beauty secret?

I don't have one. I do yoga, eat separately, dance always and everywhere - that’s all the secrets. As for my inner state, I like the way I look, feel and think much more now than when I was 20 years old.

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