How often do women think this way, and that is why this such a common phrase has become the hallmark of Pavel Rakov’s author’s meetings. It’s not in my rules to personally discuss someone and prove that he or she is wrong. I will only talk about the true common misconception of women, and indeed a misconception, therefore, may Pavel Rakov forgive me as a coach (I don’t like this word) and even a women’s trainer, I absolutely do not take the same position and do not intend to compete with a man, however more so like Pavel Rakov, clearly with military energy, because I’m not an expert in military operations, but I consider it necessary to say that Pavel Rakov is an excellent showman, because I say either good things about people or nothing. So, what am I leading the conversation to, because the whole article is not about Pavel Rakov, I just took the core that skillfully formed the basis of Pavel Rakov’s author’s trainings, and I want to talk about this core, and not Pavel Rakov, he has already become familiar in at the beginning of the article and may be offended, but it’s not in my rules to offend men.
What knowledge can be gained from such training?
Author's training In fact, I'm smart, but I live like a fool, he reveals the weaknesses of a woman, ridicules and then harshly directs sometimes there, sometimes not there, in general, it is not for me to judge the quality of any trainings, but for those who have been there, to teach, but Moreover, we can train someone only on the basis of some knowledge, there are many specialists in women’s training, women’s practices are a current trend today, it’s just that everyone approaches this training based precisely on their knowledge, for some it’s geisha schools , someone has an intimate institute or positive thinking, some classes are run by psychologists, some are prostitutes, no, no, I’m not trying to offend, but geishas are prostitutes, just like courtesans (we’ll talk about this later) . Each course is something new or even exotic for women, I talked about them in other articles. With this article I will delve into the psychology of a woman and her understanding of the core of the phrase. In fact, I'm smart, but I live like a fool. So, you are smart to me, because a woman with cabbage soup on her head doesn’t shine with intelligence, she won’t shine at social balls, she would like to tie up Vanya’s neighbor. Here are all the psychological courses from the inside - there is an understanding of the psychology of an ordinary woman (without Chin) and an ordinary man (without Chin), they are certainly needed Man and Van need to be put somewhere, their heads also need to be occupied with something. This is what I'm getting at. There is Pavel Rakov, who teaches psychology, but through the show, not boring, fun! There are still a lot of specialists from Taoist women's practices to geisha schools who teach intimacy, but there is no one who teaches knowledge that has gone back centuries, who raises the rank of women and the resource of the nobility. This is not the case because no one remembers or knows, and no books have been written on this topic yet (no one), and because the elite has practically disappeared completely.
Answer your question honestly. Do you want to be a luxurious, noble woman in China and have the same husband, children and, of course, the appropriate environment? If you answered yes, then I’m ready to show you unique knowledge, if not, then you’ll be invited to the show and numerous courses for women.
Pavel Rakov
In fact, I'm smart, but I live like a fool!
Expanded edition with new chapters
Based on the women's training show of the same name
© Rakov P.
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Provocation
If you call a slender, tall, young, beautiful girl an old fat little cow, she will only smile slightly without taking it personally. But if a woman is really like that, then for her it will be a serious personal insult. Didn't you like the title of my book? Congratulations! You are really smart, but you live like a fool. You know and can do everything, only in relationships something is wrong every time. That's why my book is for you. It is especially useful for those who did not like its name. This name is a test of your psychological balance. This bright phrase is the name of my show training. I increasingly meet women who react to such provocation with a smile and say:
“Oh, it’s true about me!”
Once I was invited to perform at a women's festival in Odessa. I myself am a Muscovite, an entrepreneur, and have been working with men for about 25 years. I said, “What kind of women’s coach am I?” The organizers insisted and made a lucrative offer. Plus summer, the sea, Deribasovskaya... And I agreed. Women asked me to tell me what men really think about them. And I spoke without embellishment about men’s pain, fears, complexes, all the pros and cons in relationships with women. After a three-hour performance at a festival in Odessa, in one month a hall of three hundred people was assembled for my first women’s training. And away we go. Now there are more and more participants in the training.
I am often asked: “Where do you get so many people for your training shows?” Yes, indeed, every month more than ten thousand people come to my events. And the answer is very simple: because the people who attended my trainings experience great changes in their lives. For many women, just after one three-hour master class, their men give expensive gifts that they had never dreamed of before. I will say more, even strangers, as if by agreement, begin to court and behave gallantly, as if the power of attraction of these women has increased several times. This book was written based on the materials of my three-hour master class. Just three hours that can positively impact your life. See for yourself! Visit my website www.pavelrakov.com, read reviews, watch this master class for free or take part in show training and chat with the participants.
You will see everything with your own eyes. It is very easy to notice happy and satisfied women - they are in that state of satisfaction that attracts, fascinates and inspires. You can also see how these women dress impressively, move gracefully and what expensive cars they arrive in. They are full of femininity, their eyes glow. It feels like you are in heaven...
And then the holiday begins. Magic music plays inside, shimmering, bright stars slowly fall down so that everyone around can make wishes. A light warm stream of air blows through your hair, shimmering with golden light under the clear night sky. The entire space is saturated with the smell of love and harmony. The breeze sways the clear surface of the sea, in which the yellow moon is reflected and which invites the gaze deeper and deeper into its bottomless expanses. Only fabulous, fragile snowflakes rise from the horizon somewhere into infinity, into outer space, evoking dreams of the personal and intimate. From this, the chest begins to gasp for clear air more often, and the hot heart beats faster and faster. Nature itself opens its expanses to you, like an embrace when you see a happy woman. Inside a man, everything turns over and again finds its place, filling his life with meaning. Now the man understands what all his aspirations and achievements are for. And this only adds strength and passion to him for great achievements in your name. ABOUT! This magical feeling rolls throughout the body. The fire in the chest is hot and light at the same time making the man’s body tremble and breathe faster. These are happy and satisfied women who do this with their companion.
Your chances of getting married
I think that if I were in your place and they told me that reading this book would change everything in my life: they would give me an apartment, a car, and I would be happy - perhaps I would have nothing but distrust, I would have it didn't cause it. Yes, this book, like any others, is unlikely to be guaranteed to make your life better, because books only carry information. To get what you want, you need to have skills that can be acquired in my show training. There I will help you immerse yourself in the state of a happy, contented woman who attracts all men. You will choose one of them - the most worthy - and give him your hand and heart.
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If you haven't read (heard/seen) yet, get acquainted.)) Another guru for naive fools - professional "con man" Pavel Rakov. His “trainings” are gaining more and more popularity in cities and towns.
Our columnist attended the popular women's training “Why am I so smart, but I live like a fool.” What came of it, read below.
A person always lacks a little for complete happiness. Without whom we, of course, are somehow incomplete. Just recently I had an argument with a friend. I say: “Oh, we’re beautiful. What kind of borscht they cooked - well done.” In response, she broke loose: “What’s so good about being alone! We don’t have husbands!” That's it. Without your husbands, you can’t even sip borscht calmly. Does the social climate have an impact? All this discourse about a healthy family and spiritual bonds? Be that as it may, people like my dear friend now feed a huge industry of show business.
Their darkness. “Success gurus”, “masters of the tenth stage of happiness”, “brahmins of sex coaching”, etc. and so on. If you don't believe me, look on the Internet. These children of Lieutenant Schmidt gather a larger audience than Pugacheva’s children.
They say “lay down” instead of “put down”, have diplomas from the “world academies of everything” and promise to reveal the secret of happiness in two days (and the secret of oral sex - bonus).
Among others, I was attracted to a man named Pavel Rakov. Firstly, his training is called “Why am I so smart, but I live like a fool.” The author, in just two days off, undertakes to explain to a young lady - of any age, height and civil status - the fatal mistakes of her path. Secondly, this training tours throughout the CIS and gathers audiences of thousands from Kharkov to Novosibirsk. Thirdly, I was touched by the literary allusion: the cost of the studies is six thousand four hundred rubles per person. As we remember, it was this amount that Shura Balaganov needed for complete happiness.
On Saturday morning, a natural “Viennese Ball” gathered at the Izmailovo-Beta hotel. Swarovski, curls, shoulders - on dangerously high platforms. The triumph of femininity was spoiled by the sleepy guests of Beta in slippers and sweatpants, but no one paid attention to them. Walking along the legs in the packed hall, I grabbed a chair in the back row.
An athletic man and a girl with four higher education degrees between them and a slight southern Russian accent took the stage. They introduced themselves as “leading leaders” and told how they got rid of excess weight, found love and success (someone even gave the young lady an Infinity). The audience cheered. The great Pavel Rakov, whose wisdom had benefited previous speakers, was released onto the stage to a standing ovation.
Good evening! – Rakov greeted mysteriously and continued even more mysteriously:
For two days I will create stressful situations for you. After all, only in stressful situations does a person show what he really is!
The first couple of hours passed quietly. In order not to live like a fool, you have to get a man - this is clear by default. In this regard, Paul told the secret of the structure of the male world. In his mind, this world looks like a triangle on paper. The top part is occupied by presidents, State Duma deputies and businessmen of categories “A” and “B”. Below are "B". God forbid you get involved with loser Ge! Ge - it is Ge.
When dating a man who works for hire, you are making a mistake! - the guru snapped. We'll have to look up to the deputies...
The point of attracting “man A” came down to the simple rule of looking good and “radiating positivity.” A real woman always smiles at a man and without any fuss. “Whoever laughs with their mouth closed is constipated,” “A woman with constipation collects toxins and never laughs!” - Pavel joked charismatically to bursts of laughter and applause. He had difficulty choosing a gloomy lady from the audience and did an “exercise” with her: “I call you “Fool,” and you smile.”
How little does a smart woman need: pay six thousand, get up at six in the morning - come to hell, listen to humor about constipation... To justify the editorial costs, the author of these lines laughed as a disguise and prepared to be bored. Not so.
Chicken fights
The dull plot about “men A and B” suddenly took a sharp turn.
There are not enough alpha males for everyone - we have to fight for them! – Pavel said. And he began to create a model of struggle.
Do you see that the first two rows in the hall are not occupied? They say "VIP" on them. The first row costs three thousand rubles, the second - two. Now two people will come on stage and sell VIP seats. Your task is to buy counterfeit goods from them.
Two boys dressed as hockey goalkeepers walked onto the stage. Streams of young ladies rushed towards them from all corners. One moment - and the ladies clung to the hockey players, like brutal Romans to the quivering Sabine women. “Look what's happening! – Pavel said in the voice of commentator Ozerov, “for my own money!” They tore off one guy’s helmet and started grabbing his head (apparently to tear it off too), then it turned out that the tickets were sold out. However, the incident was not over. In the stalls, two ladies tried to take one chair and got into trouble again.
"That's life!" - Rakov concluded with inspiration. From his further words it turned out that everyone who did not go out to fight, losers and alpha males will not receive.
Objections were heard in the hall.
- Who said anything about self-esteem? – the guru perked up. – The Institute of Noble Maidens was shot in 1917. And you are the descendants of the overseers. I'll tell you the truth: do you know what your dignity leads to? You'll be left alone! This is the rule of neuromarketing: those who did not make it onto this stage are losers. You f...pe, fools.
In general, “fools” and “torn bitches” - this is how Pavel, in a homely manner, addressed the audience every time he attacked women’s vices. Yes, in fact, that’s all he did.
The number one defect of women is distrust of men. Several volunteers were invited to the stage. Pavel brought a paper glass to each of them in turn, pretended that he wanted to pour it out and said: “There is no water there.” The young ladies either believed it or didn’t believe it and recoiled slightly. The latter, already completely convinced that the glass was empty, carefully poured it onto the top of her head.
Sorry, honey, I screwed up,” our guru beamed as the victim wiped himself off, “you see!” It's OK. It's okay when a man makes mistakes, let us make mistakes sometimes.
Then he attacked the workers.
A woman shouldn't work! Work is killing the woman in you! Working women's balls of iron rattle! Who wants to quit their job?
Surprisingly: almost half wanted it.
Get on all fours! – our leader commanded the two most dissatisfied ones. They - a little less decisively - obeyed. And then Pavel, with the agility of the farce Parsley, pulled out of the air a natural shovel with a wooden handle and tapped the ladies on the most prominent part of the body. The young ladies squeaked in embarrassment. The audience cheered, as if they were just waiting for someone to be spanked with a shovel...
Mom said!
One young lady admitted that she likes to work: she builds a state district power station. Our guru indignantly pulled her onto the stage and started bashing her: “you’re fat, no one wants to have sex with you,” etc. But she behaved with pleasant dignity (allegedly exterminated in the 17th year).
During the break, we chatted with a wonderful builder. "What are you doing here? Are you really a fool too? And you, brute!” I say. “It’s not like I…Mom’s counting.” Mom is sacred. Mom presses about “getting married” - and the already smart, rich, beautiful daughter, as if under hypnosis, goes to listen to herself about the “truth” that they will tell her on any tram. Sensing something was wrong, I went to the people with a survey. Among the members of the congress were: a psychologist, a mathematics teacher, a doctor and a choral conductor. But everyone is like the daughter of one mother who demands a son-in-law and grandchildren. Two even came with their mothers. And alone with dad. I remembered the immortal lines of Taras Shevchenko: “They are silent - they go to corvee and lead their children with them...”. But the poet said this about serfdom, and here are a thousand free women of the twenty-first century.
On Saturday evening, our brahman ordered an obedience: buy his book in the foyer for 250 rubles and sell it with a profit to a passerby on the street. Speculation in the book will certainly increase our self-esteem. “One girl sold for one hundred and fifty thousand,” Pavel admonished.
Fourty years? Crawl to the cemetery
The next day, hearing that the flock did not dare to make money, the guru became fiercely angry: “You do not have female hormones endorphins (actually endorphin is a “general” pleasure hormone, female hormones are called estrogens) because you do not produce testosterone in men! You are losers, you infect a man with the virus of failure! You're leaking pus! Especially those over forty. You are all already dead!
Offhand, the “dead women” made up about a third of the meeting, but this did not bother our speaker. After making some noise, he ordered the audience to stand with their hands raised for half an hour.
Having calmed down a little and drinking some water, he - with renewed vigor - attacked the sexual side of love. It turned out that women are to blame here too:
You are drawing energy from a man without giving anything in return!
As a result of the raider's seizure of energy, the man is exhausted and bleeding. Yes, it’s generally incomprehensible how he didn’t die from us destructive women...
To better understand the subtle masculine nature, Pavel did the “Socks” exercise. The lucky girls from the front row took the stage. But this time they were very unlucky.
I wore old shoes today. And he didn't change his socks. I actually had a hard time putting them on today! “They were lying in a puddle,” Pavel announced, ominously taking off his shoes.
Then he took the socks and began waving them dangerously close to the meeting:
This is how to smell socks: smile and say “how nice!” They smell fragrant!”
...And none of the young ladies doubted the fragrance of the socks. Still would. Such grandmothers cry.
The creative genius of our beneficiary did not end there. He worked long and hard. He smashed the TV with an axe. He showed how to get out of a car in a sexy way (with his hem pulled up and his hand covering the biblical spot). He encouraged us to “start a new life” and promoted his summer camp, where everyone would be taught a raw food diet and multi-orgasm. It’s well known: without a raw food diet, you won’t have an orgasm, don’t even dream about it.
Overall, a strong show that makes you think. That's what it's about. By admonishing fools, our coach creates a completely schizophrenic model of the “truth of life.” He agitates not to work, but at the same time to look like a goddess (getting money from blackmail books).
Get out of the car only in a hurry, always smile. But at the same time, punch each other in the face for the men. Moreover, for those who can only be seen on TV... If you believe in the existence of such a “truth of life”, very soon the houses of mourning will not withstand the influx of Pavel Rakov’s former clientele. He, of course, is not without natural charm, which he skillfully reinforces by bringing his best to the stage adherents - noble raw foodists, favored by fortune, who know a lot about multi-orgasms.
He uses convincing terminology: “g...but”, “f..pa”, “neuromarketing” and “dopamine” in the meaning of “estrogen”. But, for mercy’s sake, it’s obvious: it’s impossible to increase your self-esteem by fighting and standing on all fours on stage. To attract “businessmen” - even more so. It is much wiser to save six thousand four hundred rubles for a vacation. Go to the resort, eat lobster, watch the people. They may not all be millionaires, but they are not defensive hockey players either. And don’t give any more money to all these hybrids of Kashpirovsky and Panikovsky. Otherwise, you know, it’s a shame for the country: where are we going when in any city there can easily be a thousand fools?..
Here is also an interesting article.
A few months ago, a friend called me and asked me to help save his girlfriend, who allegedly fell into a cult. We met, and he told a sad story: she has been going to women’s training for 8 months as if it were a job. “It seems to me that I can immediately give part of my salary to her coach, and soon I will give the whole salary. The last straw was when she signed up for the training “How to Find the Man of Your Dreams.” Am I not that man?”
How it works?
“How to attract a man”, “secrets of seduction”, “funnels of female power”, “strengthening relationships using oral sex techniques”, “marriage with a millionaire” - these popular trainings are attended by thousands of women. They are waiting for a miracle and a magical transformation in 21 days from a sad housewife to a seductress.
The trainings create a special atmosphere and immerse you in a fairy tale. The trainer is called a wizard, guru, fairy, candles and incense are lit, and pleasant music is played.
“A woman’s daily life is quite simple: it consists of work, caring for herself and children, and some kind of leisure,” says psychotherapist Irina Vinnik. - There is little magic in life, and when some problem arises, she understands that it will be difficult to solve it within everyday life. This fantasy world comes to her aid, where all women are beautiful, understand each other and know special secrets and techniques. The illusion arises that this is what she was missing. Critical thinking often fails in women. And then it works like a cult.”
Participation in the training gives a feeling of excitement, feverishness, and the more people in the group, the stronger the effect. A coach is perceived as a wise mentor, like a mother or father who will teach you how to do it and who you can trust. Participants tell how much their lives have changed after communicating with a mentor, how they found happiness, got married, had a child, and became confident and successful.
Women with an infantile attitude to life are at risk
“These are the remnants of a childish, mythological consciousness - the belief that we will be given a magic wand, with one wave of which we will be transported to a fairy-tale world,” says the expert. - Infantile women tend to look for quick solutions: learning to talk to their husband for a long time, improving oneself as a person is difficult, taking responsibility for one’s life is scary. This could be a woman of any age whose consciousness is stuck in the state of a child.”
Instead of real actions, trainings for women provide certain magical rituals, after going through which the participant will become Aphrodite in a modern guise. You are encouraged to become a different person, like everyone else in the group, and hear memorized phrases. But why does society need identical women who lack spontaneity and sincerity?
Irina Vinnik advises, instead of training on transforming into a wonder woman, to attend useful trainings and seminars on self-development. “Among the useful women's trainings, I can mention training in intimate gymnastics: this is important for physiology, including improving blood circulation in the pelvic organs, and for solving postpartum problems, and for preparing for childbirth. This is a very specific set of exercises, daily training, and it will take effort and time to achieve results.
And this does not mean that feminine energy will work magically, that you will become the queen of sex or solve all your problems with a man. It’s just that intimate muscles and women’s health will be fine: through improved blood circulation, increased sensitivity and increased pleasure from sex are possible.”
What is the danger?
Few of the organizers warn about contraindications and possible negative consequences. A common example: a girl came to a meeting, and under pressure from the coach, who often chooses a so-called victim, she said a lot of personal things about herself. Arriving home, she experiences a deep sense of guilt for this frankness - psychologically she was not ready for it. Or feels a sense of shame or disappointment.
Any training must be considered as learning, and it cannot be quick
You need to take into account the peculiarities of your nervous activity and answer the question: what do I expect from this training, what results should I achieve? If you feel like something has gone wrong: you don’t like the coach, he’s putting pressure on you, the atmosphere in the group is too strange, feel free to get up and leave.
Attending training and developing is very good, it can really change your life, but it will take years. Promises to make you happy in 3 days and find a millionaire husband are a story from the category of sorcerers and magicians. Any training must be considered as learning, and it cannot be quick. For example, the average psychotherapy group lasts six months. And after it comes years of work on oneself. Then you can really become a different person, find yourself, your calling and create a happy family.
About the expert
Psychotherapist, Gestalt therapist, sexologist. More details on her website.
