About a wife's dancing for her husband. How to give a lap dance for your man How to dance for your husband

Alla Pugacheva rarely appears in public. Now the singer prefers to spend everything free time at home with family and friends. However, for the sake of the birthday of one of her comrades, she made an exception. The actress came to the event with her husband Maxim Galkin, choosing a stunning knee-length outfit with a large train for the evening. The dress was decorated with numerous feathers.

Fans recognized the star’s image as extremely successful, but they were even more impressed by her unusual dance. The actress did not hesitate to move seductively in front of Maxim Galkin, and he diligently recorded what was happening on his phone.

“At a friends birthday party,” Galkin succinctly captioned the video on Instagram.

Alla Pugacheva danced to own song"Cafe of Dancing Lights" Fans came to the unanimous conclusion that the pop star looks great. Many of them noted that the Diva has lost even more weight and now looks at least 20 years younger. "The best. She has always been and will remain,” “I wish I could dance like that, but I’m 30 years younger. One can only envy”, “Love truly works wonders. Alla Borisovna has changed beyond recognition in better side. Maxim, post videos like this more often,” fans of the artist wrote.

Maxim Galkin often shares family photos and videos. Moreover appearance Alla Borisovna invariably causes a strong reaction among her fans. Many of them note that over the past five years the star has changed dramatically. The actress managed to lose a few extra pounds. At the same time, Diva’s style also changed. Now she chooses more feminine and elegant outfits. Moreover, Pugacheva is not shy about wearing miniskirts, and also enjoys trying on youth dresses.

On the air of the program “You Won’t Believe It!” a famous nutritionist even suggested that the Prima Donna had undergone a gastric resection. Allegedly, this procedure promotes gradual weight loss. This operation involves removing part of the stomach. However, no evidence has ever been provided to support this hypothesis.

Fans of Pugacheva are sure that there was no trace of any operation. In their opinion, the star is sitting on extreme effective diet and limits himself to junk food. At the same time, Maxim Galkin also contributed to the transformation of the artist, who surrounded his wife with care and attention. He never tires of complimenting his beloved, and sometimes posts candid shots of Alla Borisovna.

The dance video once again proved that Pugacheva is in great shape and is not afraid to show it off to others.

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How to perform private dance for your man? It's sexy, it's fun, it's harmless, it's liberating, and your partner will love it!

Attention: this article intended for persons over 18 years of age.

Steps

Set some ground rules.

• Never allow your partner to touch you during the entire dance. You can touch him, lick him, rub him, and caress him all you want without letting him get cold. Slow seduction is Right way for a successful dance. The whole point of a lap dance is to drive a man crazy with impatience and desire.
• You are in charge. Take your time, take control and have fun teasing him.
• If he reaches in your direction or starts to open his arms, hit him on the wrist and let him know that if he does it again, the dance is over for him, no exceptions.

1. To enjoy a private dance, you must feel comfortable. You won't look sexy if you don't feel sexy. Accept your body for who it is and enjoy it, no matter your shape or size. Any woman can do a striptease or a lap dance, regardless of whether she is shy or thinks she doesn't have ideal curves. Not all lap dancers are supermodels, they just act like supermodels. Now is your time to cherish, release your sensual spirit and be seductive. Leave inhibitions and prejudices behind. You are a sexy goddess.

   Choose clothes that make you feel hot and sexy and the rest will follow. There is a huge selection of clothes! These are bras, panties, garters, belts, stockings, shirts, robes, Stuffed Toys, swimsuits, clubwear, fetish clothing with oversized buttons at the top of the shirt and much more. The key is to wear something that is easy to take off. Go for it! Remember, you will be teasing a man, so it is important to show some flesh.

   • Start by choosing your underwear, as this will be the last thing you will be wearing. A sexy bra, thong, stockings (they're easier to work in) and maybe suspenders.
   • The panties should highlight your buttocks, while the back of the panties should reach as high as possible. Try high hem panties or thongs that stick out from shorts to see what works best for you. Panties that leave marks on your body when removed will need to be removed - they are probably too tight and should be avoided.
   • Thigh high or garterless stockings are a sexy addition to almost any outfit. Try a pair that makes it easy for you to move. If you do not plan to remove your stockings and garters throughout the dance, wear the panties on the outside so that they can be removed without untying the garters.
   • For a top layer, try little shorts, an innocent thin robe, a sexy high school teacher/college uniform, something vamp, Desperate Housewives, or something different like a classic red or black evening dress with retro lingerie underneath.
   • Avoid corsets or clothing that fits too tightly and is difficult to slip out of. Also avoid clothing with zippers at the back or big amount belts, which will take a lot of time to remove.
   • Shoes with high heels usually goes best with any outfit. It makes your legs look matte, smooth and longer. Even if you feel a little uncomfortable, try it - you won't have to walk in heels for long. Otherwise, wear what you are comfortable in. As a last resort, dance barefoot.
   • Take off as many things as you want. You can choose full nudity, topless, you can stay in sexy lingerie, a lace dress or fully clothed. However, your loved one must remain fully clothed.
   • If you choose shoes with buckles, consider how you will remove your clothes without removing your shoes. Elastic clothes or light dresses can be removed with shoes, but you should make sure this in advance. No shoe option suits you? Dance barefoot and turn your man on as much as possible.
   • If you're doing this in heels, don't take them off (except to remove your stockings, or better yet, leave the stockings on). You may need to put your shoes back on after removing the stockings. Shoes without webbing or straps are easier to remove than shoes with straps or buckles.
   • If you have chosen something that can be easily pulled off over your head, sliding seductively, pull the clothing from the bottom to the sides, while standing straight and not hunched over.
   • A button down shirt can be a very sexy piece of clothing when you take it off. With the last button undone, play with the bare shoulders on each side and then let the shirt slowly slide to the floor.
   • Tight trousers or jeans will take a long time to remove. The pencil skirt can be easily unzipped and pushed down. Do this while bending slightly, and when it subsides, “come out” of it. Skirts can be removed without removing shoes and stockings.
   • Practice removing stockings ahead of time. For added balance (and teasing), place your toes between your legs or on the chair arms as you remove each stocking and slowly roll or roll them up the length of your leg.
   • Don't forget to tease him. For beginners: take your time to remove each layer. Pull up your skirt or underwear down a few centimeters before removing. Grab the sides of your pants, skirt or underwear with one or two fingers and gently lower the item of clothing, teasing your lover.
   • Pull the bra straps over your shoulders before lowering them. The classic way to remove a bra, which professional strippers resort to, is to turn your back to your man and let the bra fall to the floor, or with your back to him, hold the bra over your head before throwing it to the floor. Then turn around, keeping your hand on your chest and slowly move it across and away from your chest. It will look very sexy.
   • When removing your underwear, try sliding them over your shoes, or while you're standing upright barefoot. Do this by bending slightly at the waist and guiding them all the way to the floor and then stepping out of them. If this is not so easy for you, try bending your knees or removing clothes while lying on your back. Don't squat too low.
   • Do not undress completely until the very end, and when you do undress, tease the man’s imagination until his patience runs out.

2. Choose 2-3 sensual songs that you both enjoy. Think of something cute and seductive. Avoid songs with large vocal parts. It would be nice to take something from pop singers and 60s divas, at least if you want something romantic. The sensual rhythm will guide you through the entire dance. It's best if you can feel the music and feel comfortable with it. Start with 2-3 songs.

   • The first song is for warming up. This is your time to lead your partner to a chair, sit him down, explain the rules and begin to slowly seduce him with ease.

3. You don't have to start from the very beginning of the song. Take your time, walk around your loved one, touch him, run your fingers through his hair and feel the rhythm.

   If you choose 2-3 songs, you won't have to worry about finishing the dance in a hurry. You are free to choose short sweet songbooks or long and languid ones. You will probably be at the peak of your passion by the time they finish, so you can safely choose a dozen songs, then the pleasure at the end will be unforgettable.

   • If possible, burn all the songs to a CD or create a playlist on a portable player. Don't stop there, look for new songs and update your CD.

4. Beginners will need to catch a rhythm and take their time during the seduction process. Close your eyes, feel the music, go into a trance and start swaying.

   • The day before, spend 30 minutes trying on clothes, as well as rehearsing poses and movements. Dance on your feet and on the floor. These might be things you've never done before. Try sliding down the wall and then going up. Walk on your fingertips.
   • While standing on the floor, try opening and closing your legs or leaning on your knees from one side to the other. Experiment with different angles. Sit on a chair. Caress your thighs, neck, stomach and legs. Close your legs and then open them with your hand spreading your thighs apart. Open up again. Close your eyes if you are shy.
   • If you feel uncomfortable while dancing, think of it as an aerobics class. Stretch, bend over, do the splits. Use your arms to stretch them out to the sides and reach your hands towards your fingertips. If you have practiced martial arts, yoga or Pilates, apply your knowledge to create your own sexy image.
   • Think of your dance as a tai chi session. gym. Slow movements and a general feeling of well-being are all that is needed to dance well.

5. Seduce your loved one with passionate glances. Your facial expression will reflect your sexual thoughts and activate the sexual tension in the air. Look at your body, touch it, enjoy it, and then look at your loved one, eye to eye, and notice how he reacts to you and your body. Support eye contact all the time. If your back is to your partner, look over your shoulder.

   Add a few accessories for your daily dancing, items that you love to play with. You do this for your own pleasure too.

   • Blindfolding will help keep your partner's feelings in suspense. He will be intrigued to find out what happens next.
   • A pair of handcuffs or a silk scarf can be used to keep your partner's hands down if he breaks the rules.
   • Use a soft feather to move it over your partner's body. Sit on a chair and, keeping your body upright, slide the feather along your legs and slowly move it from your neck to your inner thigh.
   • If you wear shirts with buttons, you can use a tie. Tie a noose around his neck to pull him closer to your face, or tie his hands if he breaks the no-touching rule.
   • If you are the kind of girl who loves to get naughty, use your favorite toy for your pleasure and his “torture”.
   • Tease him with a scarf or silk cape, or use it to cover yourself if that makes you feel more comfortable.
   • Use your hair. While kneeling or sitting you stretch your torso, pull back your hair and let it fall back. Use them for seduction.
   • Use an ice cube from a cocktail. Place the cube in your mouth and roll it over your lover's body or brush it over his nipples.
   • Your lips and eyes are powerful tools of seduction. Try the classic pout or smile. Play with facial expressions.
   • With a little practice, use a hat, scarf, cane or items of the equestrian costume to seduce and seduce a man.

6. Create the perfect atmosphere. Dim lights, perfume, lit candles. You can add light from a floor lamp or garland to the candles. Candles will add a soft, warm glow to your body. Indirect lighting will be both flattering and more intimate. Avoid fluorescent lights or white LED lights.

   • Make sure the room temperature is comfortable, not too cold or too hot, otherwise it will distract you.
   • Turn off all possible distractions - TV, Cell phones and so on.

7. Clear the area where you will be dancing so you don't bump into anything.

   • Make sure the chair your partner will sit on can support both of them. Sit on him and imagine yourself in his place, and then how you sit on his lap.

8. Send him a seductive SMS or a mysterious message on email, but see that he does not receive it too late.

   The invitation will intrigue him and make him eager for the whole day. Alternatively, don't send anything, but give him a surprise. In any case, you will need time to prepare the “scene” and also to calm yourself down, especially if this is your first time. Turn on the music and lead your loved one to a chair.

   Let him sit with his legs crossed. Start by looking him straight in the eye with a teasing smile. Move around the man, touch him, run your fingers through his hair and move to the rhythm of the music. Explain the rules and start dancing slowly, easily and seductively. Switch your gaze between him and yourself, touching certain parts of your body.

   Run your fingers through your hair, then move to the back of your head, across your chest, then down to your hips and across the front of your body. As you move your hands, imagine that they are his hands. Enjoy the touch of your (his) hands on your body. Constantly touch your body and move them to the sides towards the back of your head. Look into his eyes and try to slowly and gently wrap your arms around his head (head falling forward and then up), letting your hair fall onto his face. Then try moving your hips.

   Move so that your groin is in the area of ​​his knee, then lean in as if you are going to kiss him, and hold this position so that he can smell your perfume, and then quickly pull away. Take a few steps in front of your partner.

   Think sexually and show it in your movements. Start moving your hips to the music in soft, circular motions. Close your eyes for a few seconds and enjoy the moment. There is nothing around you except your partner. Take your time, slowly approach him, putting one leg or the other forward, cat-style. Once you get close enough, take your lap dance to the next level.

   Try continuing the lap dance by swaying between your partner's legs, rubbing parts of your body against his groin. The top must go first. Seductively and gradually remove another item or two of clothing (perhaps a skirt or shorts) and return again to your partner. Get so close that you're practically sitting on his lap. Sensually lean on him and let him feel your hot breath and soft passionate moan. By gently biting his ear or touching his neck with a brush, inhale his scent to show him how pleasant his smell is to you.

   Throughout the private dance, continue to caress yourself and do not get too close to your partner for too long.

   Come just for a moment. Remember that eye contact is very important. Let your eyes convey all those sexy thoughts and don't forget to smile.

   If you're feeling playful, approach him again as if you're going to take him with all your passion, but instead kiss him on the cheek, move away and put the clothes back on. Then go to another part of the house or go for a walk. You may have to run. Try several times in different costumes, styles and with

   different music and you'll soon become an expert in all things sexy dancing.

   The possibilities are endless and the results are always great. Finally, take off all your clothes and tell him that your body belongs to him.

• Your partner will love it!
• Get ready for sex.
• Don't forget about contraception!
• As you lean toward him with your arms crossed, gently squeeze your breasts together to create extra volume. Your breasts will become rounder and larger if you apply pressure from your forearm.
• The key to a successful lap dance is the ability to move and touch your body before moving on to more intimate caresses, when the “victim” is already helpless.
• You don't have to take off all your clothes. Behave sexually, do everything to make his emotions go wild. You don't have to be completely naked to turn him on. The main thing is that you feel comfortable at the same time.
• If you dance barefoot, or once you've taken off your shoes, try dancing on your toes. Dancing on your toes will help you achieve the same physical effect as wearing shoes and will make your legs look longer, thinner and firmer. This will force you to straighten your chest, arch your back and accentuate your calves as an added bonus.
• The key to successful erotic dancing lies in layers of clothing and how you remove them one layer at a time.
• As you move your hips from side to side, keep your arms up in the air with your wrists crossed. This will make your breasts more visible. Among other things, this is a great stretch.
• Each time you place your hand on your thigh, make sure your fingertips point up and your wrist drops down so that your hand and wrist form a V. This position keeps your shoulders straight, lengthens your body, and creates a beautiful hourglass effect.
• Slow hot dance will make you feel sexy. Walk confidently with your hands on your hips and show off your body.
• Some classic songs for a private dance:
  • Prince - Cream
  • Prince - Peach
  • Madonna - Justify My Love
  • Gwen Stefani - Luxurious
  • Justin Timberlake - What Goes Around Comes Around/My Love
  • Nine Inch Nails - Closer
  • Timbaland - The Way I Are
  • Beyoncé - Freakum Dress
  • Kylie Minogue - Chocolate
  • White Stripes - I just don’t know what to do with myself
  • Goldfrapp - Ooh La La
  • Kyuss - Gloria Lewis
  • Jimi Hendrix - Hey Joe
  • Joe Cocker - You Can Leave Your Hat On
• Imagine that your hands are his hands. Touch yourself where he would like to touch you.
• Use your surroundings. Lean your back against the wall, twist, squat, and rise again. Use a spare chair. Move forward backward or sit away from him to remove the stockings with one leg straight in the air, one at a time.
• Stand at a slight angle and turn your head towards him. The angled profile is very flattering in soft light. Hollywood movie stars use this technique in movies for a reason.
• Remember, you must feel comfortable.
• Stripper stance: arch back, chest forward, wear stiletto heels or stand on tiptoes, walk slowly with with outstretched fingers legs whenever the foot leaves the floor. Each time you lift your leg, bend it back and up before placing it down. As you walk, try placing one foot directly in front of the other, like a runway model, but slowly. Practice this type of walk, it will make you feel taller, more dominant and sexy.
• After taking four or five steps in one direction, pause, stand with one or both hands on your hips and look into his eyes.
• If you drink, take a few sips of wine or cocktail to calm your nerves. Let your partner take a sip too, or as much as you decide to allow him to keep him on his toes.
• If you're nervous, practice in front of a mirror a few days before the event. Then when the time will come, just imagine that you are dancing in front of a mirror.
• Start wearing stockings instead of tights. Wear thigh-high or garter stockings under your jeans while doing chores around the house, or wear them to the supermarket if you're too shy to wear them with a skirt.

In the name of Allah, the Gracious, the Merciful

Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the worlds, peace and blessings of Allah be upon our prophet Muhammad, members of his family and all his companions!

Fataua No. 103413. Section of family relationships - married life

Shariah ruling regarding a wife dancing in front of her husband and whether she is obligated to obey him if he orders her to do so.

Praise be to Allah. There is no problem in a woman dancing in front of her husband. And essentially this act, through which love for his wife penetrates into the heart of a man, awakens in him an attraction to her, and as a result, he satisfies his sexual passion with the help of what is permitted.

So, this helps to gain the love of your spouse, as well as to keep his gaze from forbidden glances at strange women, since some men fall into this sin by watching dancers whom they have no right to look at.

But for sure, having satiated his passion with the help of what is permitted, he will no longer want to turn his gaze to the forbidden. However, dancing in front of your husband is allowed only if the following conditions are met:

1. So that their children are not present, since this may negatively affect parental authority and lead to a decrease in respect for them. You should know that not everything that is permissible is so in the presence of children.

2. So that dancing is not accompanied by musical instruments.

3. So that, in order to learn various dances, a woman does not look at all kinds of prohibited photos and videos, since she is forbidden to look at these dissolute dancers and their ‘aurat (private places). She should also use different dance moves dances that she knew before, or dance freely without any training.

Sheikh Muhammad Salih ibn ‘Uthaymeen, may Allah have mercy on him, said: “As for a wife dancing in front of her husband, without anyone present, there is nothing wrong with that, since this may be one of the effective ways awakening desire for her. And everything that leads to this goal is necessary, with the condition that it is not prohibited. So, for example, it is a desirable sunnah for a wife to adorn herself for her husband, just as a husband does for his wife.” See al-Lika ash-shahri 12/9.

Sheikh Muhammad Nasirud-Din al-Albani was asked: “If a woman dresses in front of her husband like dancers performing on stage, would this not be a manifestation of love for what they do and agreement with it?”

The Sheikh, may Allah have mercy on him, replied: “This is permissible on the condition that it occurs only between spouses and no one sees them. And this type of clothing will not be likened to them, since these dancers perform in public, while this woman dances only for her husband. These are absolutely different situations.” See Silsila al-Huda wan-Nur (No. 814).