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A video of a lesson in one of the Russian schools, where five-year-old girls are taught to pole dance, which appeared online, caused a storm of indignation among opponents of this controversial sport. - the British Daily Mail shares with its readers.

In one of the schools in the Russian city of Naberezhnye Chelny, during physical education lessons, girls from the age of five are taught pole dancing.

In the video, a little girl can be seen learning to climb up and spin around a shiny metal pole.

The learning process is monitored by a teacher wearing a T-shirt with the inscription “Winner” (“winner”), who tells the girl how to maintain balance and perform complex movements.

“Children and a pole, or whatever you call it, are completely incompatible things. It’s vulgar and vulgar,” says one of the parents.

However, not everyone shares her indignation. Alexandra Pronina, the mother of student Kira Pronina, is proud of her daughter’s talent. Pole dancing teacher Victoria also highly appreciates the effectiveness of these classes.

“No gym will give you such a workout as pole dancing. All the muscles of the body are involved here,” Victoria is convinced.

Despite the rejection of such lessons, pole dancing has become very popular in Russia. For example, in Kazan, pole dancing competitions among children have been held for several years.

The published video is not the first of its kind. A couple of years ago, similar videos also sparked fury among netizens who claimed the sport could "incite sexual abuse" against children.

Here's how Daily Mail readers reacted to the news:

Lindy53:
- Where are the safety mats? One wrong move and the girl could be injured with brain damage.

California:
- They also say that schools don’t teach skills that can be useful in real life...

Some Guy:
- The sexualization of children must be stopped!

Hiramkey:
- Well, how else can they then attract a rich foreigner to buy them as his wife? Wretched country!

Rob980:
- Striptease school! Wow!

gadflyonthewall:
- It’s a completely normal sport, many people do it. Involves all major muscle groups, develops strength and endurance. And it was shown in circus programs long before it appeared in strip clubs.

Blaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah:
- It’s just that some people think that Russia can spend as much money on children’s sports as other countries. But the truth is that Russia's GDP is about the same level as Mexico, and the climate in Russia is much colder...

Raptor75:
- Well, at least Russia will have another product to export.

Name Pending:

I don't see anything wrong with this. Pole sport is one of the most difficult. And the skin on the legs and in the middle of the body must be open to provide the necessary grip on the pole when performing many elements.

kimkisadirtyfurhag:
- Soon it will become an Olympic sport, and then Russia will win all the gold medals in it!

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Children begin to move to the music as soon as they can stand on their feet. And girls even more so. They develop a passion for dancing and music very early. Of course, you can teach your daughter the first steps from the cradle: dancing cannot do any harm - only benefit. Moreover, dancing involves not only the physical side of a child’s development, but also the mental one.

What type of dance should I choose for my daughter? At what age is it better to enroll in a dance school? And what exactly are the benefits of dancing for a child?

What are the benefits of dancing for a girl?

For girls, dancing is considered the best sport (second place goes to swimming). Why? What does dancing give?

At what age is it better to send a girl to dance?

Today, many different dance styles are offered for children - from folk dances to acrobatic rock and roll, etc. Children begin to dance meaningfully at about seven years of age. Before that period, experts recommend sending children to gymnastics, rhythmics and other developmental clubs. And even from the age of seven, not all types of dances can be taught to your daughter. For example, tango or rumba are not at all suitable for a little girl. They are based on sensuality, which even a twelve-year-old girl cannot demonstrate. Or Irish dance: a child cannot master such complex movements. Each age has its own requirements:

  • Some teachers take one and a half year old children for teaching. But it is simply impossible to explain the dance technique to such a baby. And it’s still too early for such physical activity.
  • At two or three years old, the girl remains too clumsy for dancing and unable to accurately understand the teacher. Again, physical activity is limited. Maximum twice a week and for no more than thirty minutes.
  • From the age of four or five they are already accepted into many dance schools. But even at this age, babies often confuse their left and right legs , and are very clumsy in their movements.
  • And here from six to seven is the time to start .

Choosing a dance school for a girl

First, make a list of all the dance schools (dance clubs) that exist in your area. Next, make your choice, taking into account all the necessary criteria for a good dance school:

  • Cost of classes. Find out how and when payment is made, what is included in the price, what to do if the baby is sick and payment has been made, etc.
  • Location of the school. It is better if the school is near your home. It will be difficult for a child to go to the other end of the city to dance after school. This will either discourage the girl from dancing or affect her health.
  • Timetable of classes. As a rule, classes are held in the evenings, because the teachers are working dancers. In this case, it would be a good idea to inquire about changes in the schedule, internal regulations, etc.
  • Teachers. Of course, the best teachers are current professional dancers (or former dancers) who have earned some awards. Make sure the teachers are qualified (diplomas, certificates, awards). The teacher must have choreographic education, work experience, teaching skills, and know not only the technique and history, but also the psychology of dance.
  • Talk to parents of children who already attend this school. Find out about teaching methods, rewards and punishments students.
  • Find out about the risks and dangers of dancing.
  • School status. The school must have a city phone number, a website with the necessary information, awards, articles in various sources, and work experience. The best indicator is if the students of a given school become famous dancers.
  • Interior. A good school should have its own large hall (warm and ventilated), equipment, mirrors on the walls, a machine (for classical dancing), a changing room that is regularly cleaned, a toilet with a shower, and a durable floor covering.

Which dances should I choose for my daughter? Types of dances

It is better if the child himself determines which dance is closer. For this purpose, special classes are held in which it becomes clear what the girl has more abilities for and what her soul is more inclined to do. It is clear that if a daughter dreams of becoming a ballerina, then pushing her into hip-hop makes no sense. As well as vice versa. What types of dances do mothers send their princesses to today?

Working with young children (3-6 years old) has a lot of difficulties, especially for beginning choreographers. These include absent-minded attention, fatigue, and behavioral problems. All this is natural for this age. Therefore, you should not be upset and think that you are a bad teacher, unable to cope with children.

After college, my first group was five-year-olds. And during my first lesson, one girl peed herself (sorry for the details!) and, standing in this puddle, calmly continued to study. I didn’t even immediately understand where this puddle came from. The other children told the story of her appearance in unison. What to do? It's autumn outside, but it's not hot in the classroom. Fortunately, this girl’s mother was nearby and was waiting for the child downstairs. So I was able to pick her up from class. Otherwise I don’t know what I would do with her. This was my first lesson.

I must say that at the school they teach us performance techniques and other choreographic wisdom, but they don’t teach us at all how to work with young children. Therefore, you have to figure everything out on your own. I think that my now 15 years of experience working with children allows me to give some advice to young choreographers.

1. Prepare children for a choreography lesson

It may seem that the first point has nothing to do with choreography at all, but this is at first glance. I myself have stepped on this rake more than once. At this age, children still have a herd mentality, so it’s worth asking to leave alone during class. Everyone will start asking in turn, regardless of whether they really need it or not. It is impossible not to let a child go at this age; the result may be the same as in the story I told at the very beginning. And if you start letting everyone go, the lesson will turn into an endless wandering, the children will be constantly distracted and the lesson will go down the drain.

Therefore, before class, I either take everyone to the toilet in an orderly manner, or ask my parents to do so. Then, during the lesson, I already know that if someone asks, he may well be patient. Sometimes children ask to go out simply because they are tired or lazy. So you shouldn’t always take their requests at face value.

2. Accompany movements with words

Well, now directly to the choreography. At this age, children have very developed imaginative thinking, so it is not enough to show something several times; you must accompany your movement with words. It is very good if each movement is accompanied by images or symbolically called something. And if you come up with a small, entertaining story about movement, the children will generally be delighted. This is child psychology.

Firstly, this way children understand movement better, and secondly, they remember faster. Well, for example, when my children and I are going to do ground gymnastics on mats. We travel with them on carpeted airplanes through a fairyland. We sit on the mats, close our eyes, count “One, two, three! Let's fly!" Of course, it’s great when there is appropriate musical accompaniment. We also have our own names for each movement on the floor. And it even happens that if I missed something, the children remind me that we haven’t been there yet today.

3. Change your occupation more often

A common mistake novice teachers make when working with young children is that they spend a lot of time on one activity. Those. learn movements, do ground gymnastics. Children at this age get tired quickly. And when they get tired, they lose interest, and accordingly their attention becomes scattered. Therefore, change your activity more often during classes. Approximately every 5-7 minutes.

Plan more actions so that at any moment, as soon as you feel that attention is being lost, you can change one action to another. For example, if you are studying with children in a circle and you see that they are tired, play with them. My children and I play birds, I ask who is which bird, they name it, and then the birds fly in a circle, as soon as the music stops the birds sit down and hide in the houses. You can come up with a lot of options. The children relax and then you can continue with the lesson.

4. Play with children

Play is the main activity of children at this age, so you need to play with them. Moreover, it is desirable to bring play into work, so that when performing some pedagogical task, children think that it is just a game. On my blog I want to devote a separate section to various music and dance games. Since this is a very important element in working with children.

5. Be part of what's happening

Remember that young children often copy the people with whom their parents and educators communicate. You are no exception. They repeat your lines, your movements. Therefore, when you show movement, you must show it exactly as it should look. And if you ask children to imagine that they are in a dark forest, then you must be in this forest with them. Children fly on carpeted airplanes to a fairyland, and you fly with them too. Show with movements and emotions how they should behave in a given situation. If you want them to perform with 100% dedication in the future, then give them 150% of your energy and attention now.

Here are some basic tips for working with preschool-aged children. I want to say that working with children requires much, much greater mental and physical strength. At least, after classes with preschoolers, I feel like a squeezed lemon and am much more tired than after classes with older children. And finally, one more piece of advice: be patient, because everything that you put into these children now will come back to you later, when they grow up, and they will delight you with their successes!

What sections my son and I didn’t have time to try before we went to school, karate, drawing, swimming, we even managed to master skiing and snowboarding. But I never noticed his desire or predisposition to dance, he was still a boy. This is probably why I have never asked the question at what age to send a child to dance.

And here, for the second week now, my son has been nagging me that he wants to go learn to dance, apparently communication in the school group is taking its toll. And he wants to go not just to dancing, but to hip-hop, which is fashionable now. And despite his age, his desire is quite conscious, I even found the address of the club on the Internet - http://www.club-smile.com/dlya-detey/tancy/khip-khop/, where this dance is taught. But isn't it too early?

At what age should a child start dancing?

Well, actually, the age at which people begin to be accepted into a particular dance group will differ from the type and direction of dance.

But in general, children's groups begin to learn ordinary dances from the age of 3.

Of course, at this age you shouldn’t expect any special results from a child, much less expect that your child will be able to learn to dance salsa, hip-hop or breakdance, but still dancing at this age can be very useful. After such classes, you will begin to notice that the child has stretching and coordination of movements has improved. So, as for the base, this is the place to start.

Well, it makes sense to take the choice of a dance studio for older children more seriously and choose one of several of the most popular areas of children's dances:

  • Ballroom

Do not confuse ballroom dancing with ballet. You can start ballroom dancing from the age of 5, but it is worth considering that this direction requires the presence of a couple, and there are always not enough boys in ballroom dancing groups. So, if you have a son, then he will be popular in ballroom dancing, but if you have a daughter, then it may be difficult to find a partner, and it’s worth asking about this in advance.

  • Ballet

The most suitable age to start ballet classes is 4-5 years. Of course, in this case we are not talking about professional ballet, but already at this age children learn to stand at the barre and feel their body, practice stretching and learn basic dance movements.

  • Folk

The basis of folk dances is round dances, mass, bright and spectacular. By learning Russian folk dances, a child will learn not only to dance, but also to work and interact with the team. Suitable for children from 5-7 years old, as they require certain physical training.

  • Street

A very popular dance style among school-age children. These include hip-hop, breakdancing, funk and others. Many elements of these dances are on the verge of acrobatic tricks and require long training, strength, endurance and preparation. You can try to start practicing any type of street dancing starting from the age of 5, but if you ask the teacher at what age to send your child to street dancing, then most likely you will be advised not to rush and start no earlier than 7 years.

  • Eastern

Oriental dances are practiced exclusively by girls, and of course, for children, these dances are taught in a simplified form, all seductive movements are excluded, so to speak, a light version. Therefore, dear mothers, don’t worry, you can start practicing oriental dancing from the age of 5.

You can try to master oriental dances and belly dancing to the fullest only at an older age, well, not earlier than 15 years.

In order for your daughter to grow up healthy and active, she needs a little physical activity. And if the child is flexible and active, loves music, then dance classes will be no less effective training for successful development. What are the benefits of dancing for a growing princess? At what age should the first dance moves be taught? Where should I send my girl to: ballroom or oriental dancing? Many questions bother mothers who have decided to introduce their baby to this wonderful art form.

What are the benefits of dancing for girls?

Of course, in the future, the baby does not have to become a soloist of a dance group known throughout the world, or a ballerina of the Bolshoi Theater. But choreography classes will bring great benefits to the child, since dancing:

  • for a long time they form correct posture, which in the future will withstand high school loads and sitting at the computer;
  • strengthen the immune system;
  • help develop flexibility and plasticity, strengthen muscles;
  • form beautiful proportions of a girl’s body, get rid of excess weight;
  • develop artistry, ear for music, coordination of movements and a sense of rhythm;
  • promote easy childbirth in the future due to the active work of the pelvic organs;
  • practically do not cause injuries, which cannot be said about other sports: gymnastics, wrestling, etc.;
  • help to reveal other abilities in girls, because they become more relaxed and confident.

When should I send my girl to dance?

The age at which a child is introduced to the first dance steps largely depends on a variety of factors: the baby’s health, her desires, and your plans for the future. It is also necessary to take into account that each style is characterized by certain movements that require special skills from the little dancer. Thus, Latin American dances preach sensuality and even sexuality, which an eight-year-old girl cannot convey. But Irish dance, due to the complexity of the movements, is not suitable for a five-year-old child.

Although many dance studios accept children from two to three years old, experts say that children at this age are still too clumsy, they find it difficult to coordinate movements, and they often do not understand the instructions of teachers. A five-year-old child still confuses the right and left sides, but the age of seven is the ideal time to introduce girls to many dance styles. But don’t wait until you start school – send your little one to rhythmics, gymnastics and other developmental clubs that will prepare the child’s body for systematic dance classes.

7 qualities of a good dance school

Choosing a good dance school can be difficult, especially if you don't know much about dance itself. Start by making a list of all the dance clubs in your area, and only then, after going through the list, decide on the one that is ideal for your child. Below is a list of criteria for a good dance school.

  1. Highly qualified teachers. The right choice of teacher will ensure your child's future sporting success. The best teachers are practicing dancers who are qualified as teacher-instructors. Make sure that the choreographer has a certificate, diplomas, and awards for various dance competitions or professional competitions. A good instructor, in addition to specialized education, has work experience and knows the psychology of dance.
  2. Safe covering. Some dance styles put serious strain on joints and bones, especially ballet with its constant jumping. A professional coating consists of many layers necessary for shock absorption, sound absorption and thermal insulation. Never enroll your child in a dance class with a concrete floor.
  3. A small number of students. The fewer children who attend a dance group, the more attention your child will receive from the teacher. And for the choreographer himself it is much easier to control 10-15 little dancers than a whole horde of naughty children. Be sure to check with the instructor about the number of children in the group or attend one of the open classes.
  4. Necessary equipment. A comfortable studio environment is an important factor for successful learning. The dance hall must be spacious and well ventilated, with mirrors covering the entire wall. The child must have his own changing cabin, free access to the toilet and shower.
  5. Flexible payment system. Be sure to check the cost of training and the presence of other fees, which include the purchase of suits, payment of travel expenses, etc. Find out when payment is due and whether money is refunded for classes missed due to illness. Finally, ask if your money will be refunded if your child refuses to go to school for any reason after several visits. By the way, get ready for the inevitable costs of shoes, dresses, cosmetics and various competitions.
  6. Convenient location. The studio should be located in a safe and not very remote area. The ideal option is a dance school near your place of residence. Own parking will make life much easier for parents who are forced to deliver their child by car from other parts of the city.
  7. Realistic expectations. A quality dance studio will not offer services that are not age- or medically appropriate for your child. Experienced choreographers will not enroll a four-year-old baby in a group for ballet or tap dancing.

Choosing a dance direction

Some little girls dream of becoming a famous ballerina, others want to study modern dancing, and others have not yet figured out their own preferences. To make the final decision, choreographers conduct special lessons in which parents and children themselves understand which dance direction is best to choose.

  • Ballet. Serves as the basis for other dance styles. It develops grace, physical flexibility and elegance in girls, but do not forget about heavy physical activity. The best age to start classes is 6-7 years.
  • Jazz. An interesting dance style that relies heavily on originality and improvisation. The dance uses bold dramatic movements and involves a mixture of different directions. The start of training is seven years.
  • Tap dancing. A fascinating dance based on the rhythmic work of feet shod in special shoes with metal heels. A six-year-old child is already able to learn the necessary movements.
  • Hip-hop. Improvisation and personal interpretation are important for such dances. No sentimentality - just energy and self-confidence. Suitable for a little five year old rebel.
  • Modern dances. This dance style rejects the strict rules of classical ballet, emphasizing individuality and self-expression. This includes breakdancing, tectonics, popping, modern, etc. Only for children over ten years old.
  • Belly dance. A very useful dance style for women's health, characterized by sharp movements of the hips and abdomen. You can enroll a girl from the age of three.
  • Latin dances. Dynamic, sensual couple dances (samba, rumba, cha-cha-cha, etc.) require certain skills in expressing emotions and are suitable for older girls.
  • Ballroom dancing. The most popular movement, which includes waltz, tango, and foxtrot, will teach five-year-old children grace, the ability to “present” themselves and good taste.
  • Folk dances. They differ from others in that they were not composed by choreographers, but by different communities or groups. There are several types of folk dances, including square dance, gypsy, Irish and English dance, polka and many others. Children begin to be taught at the age of 5-7, depending on the direction and complexity.

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Dance lessons will teach your daughter self-confidence, self-discipline and grace. A child who learns to dance at an early age will retain a love of art and a passion for movement and an active lifestyle throughout his life. And, most importantly, dancing is great fun for children and adults.

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