Oh, that's it!
Quotes from Great Women
If you heard “oh, that’s it!”, then we congratulate you - you have become the undisputed winner of the argument with the girl. The phrase “oh that’s it” means a constructive conclusion to any protracted discussion with the female sex and allows a woman to get out of the argument while “saving face.”
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Decoding
How can it be interpreted? Depends on the specific girl. Possible options:
- I'm offended.
- I'm not talking to you anymore!
- You're absolutely right, but I'll never have the courage to admit it.
- You're a goat!
- You are rude!
- I have no more arguments.
- I have no idea what we're talking about, but I won't let it show.
FAQ on “Oh, that’s it!”
What to answer to this?
The best option is nothing. A slightly worse option is to provide a link to this article.
Can “oh, that’s it” be used by men?
It can be used by some extremely suspicious and insecure males, but one would not dare call them men.
When did this expression appear?
Like a meme on the Internet - in 2014. It has always been used in oral speech. For example, the author of these lines heard this phrase back in the late 90s, in childhood.
Or maybe she's trolling me?
Anything is possible.
Why exactly did I hear this?
Happens to everyone. Some earlier, some later.
Each of you probably knows how difficult it is to learn a foreign language. But believe me, any foreign language may seem clearer than what women say. Even most scientists agree with this. There is not the slightest hope of understanding women, and do not try, it is useless. Useless? No need to try anymore? Yes? No! Any woman will tell you this, but will you understand her? After all, what women say and what they actually mean are two very different things. This is where our short guide will come in handy.
So, what does a woman mean if she says:
1. Nothing
"NOTHING!" - means that SOMETHING is wrong. And it would be better for you to quickly understand WHAT exactly.
2. Does this make me look fat?
The most accurate translation of this is "Do you think I'm ugly?" And it would be better for you to immediately and categorically answer: “No!”
3. What next?
Don't take this question literally. Perhaps it's not worth trying any further. Exactly, it's not worth it. Stop! There is no further need.
4. No
Take this literally as a “no”.
5. Yes
In most cases, this means the same “no”. There are exceptions, but we can’t help you here, figure it out yourself.
6. Perhaps
Another no.
7. It would be nice if...
What follows the “if” should be taken as an order that is not discussed.
8. Oh, that's it!-
This means that the arguments have been exhausted and you have lost the argument.
9. Okay
What kind of “okay” is there? It just means she hasn't figured out how to punish you yet.
10. Do you hear what I'm saying?
When was this for you to hear? You never listen to me.
11. Decide for yourself
If you think that you have been given free rein, you are very, very, very wrong. In fact, this means: “Decide for yourself what suits me best. Don’t wait for a hint from me, you should know for yourself what is best for me.” If you still don't know, see point 17.
12. (Sighs loudly)
It’s the same as if she said: “What is this? When will it finally dawn on you?”
13. 5 minutes
It all depends on the situation. If she gets dressed, then “5 minutes” means, in reality, about 30-40 minutes. If you are watching football, then “5 minutes” does not mean that you can finish watching an interesting moment of the match, in fact, it says: “Turn off now and do something useful.”
14. I don't care
This is the same as “Oh, that’s it!”, but much worse. This is often followed by phrase number 10 (Can you hear what I'm saying?).
15. Thank you \ Thank you
She's really grateful. Don't forget to tell her: “Thank you!”
16. Thank you SO MUCH
Although you hear “thank you,” it means something completely opposite. Never answer “Thank you!”
17. Don't let it bother you
This means that she asked you (maybe even more than once) to do something, and now she intends to do it herself. All further questioning on your part will lead to point 14 (Sighs loudly).
18. Where do you want us to go?
In most cases, this means “Take me to my favorite restaurant.”
19. We need to talk
That's it, you're finished.
20. What are you doing?
This is not a question at all. Thus, she states: “You don’t know how to do this at all.”
21. Do you have to do this now?
Again this is not a question. This means “Stop what you are doing now and wait for further instructions.”
22. It’s simply impossible to talk to you
In reality, it’s “Is it so hard for you to agree with me?”
23. I wasn't upset at all
She was definitely upset.
24. We need...
She wants to tell you everything she thinks about you.
25. I don’t want to talk about it now
She wants you to leave because not all the charges against you have been built yet.
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Perhaps there is some truth in the semi-joking expression that all men are from Mars, and all women are from Venus, because in the life of every man there was at least one case when he did not understand what a representative of the fair sex wanted to tell him. And it seems that the woman speaks Russian, and constructs phrases correctly, and all her words individually are understandable to a man, but what she wants to say, what meaning she puts into her words, is not clear. And if this woman was a stranger, that’s not so bad, but if a guy misunderstands his girlfriend, he can seriously quarrel with her.
Of course, all girls are different, and they behave differently in communication and in relationships, but there are some phrases that, under certain conditions, every representative of the fair sex is likely to say. Knowing these popular phrases of girls and their interpretation, you will be able to better understand the fair sex, and you will also know what a girl wants to hear when uttering this or that phrase. Let's consider the most common and popular phrases of girls and their interpretation, and also determine what should and should not be said in response to these expressions.
Girl's phrase "Oh that's it"
The phrase "Oh that's it!" became popular relatively recently precisely thanks to the World Wide Web - both girls and guys began to use this expression when they need to quickly end a boring argument or chat. Very quickly, the phrase “Oh, that’s it” began to be used not only on the Internet, but also in real communication, and this expression can be heard especially often from a girl during an argument or conversation on a topic that is uninteresting to her.
The meaning of the phrase. Having heard from your beloved, friend or random interlocutor “Oh, that’s it,” know that this phrase, depending on the context of the situation, can mean the following:
- "I'm tired of arguing with you on this topic"
- "Each of us will still have our own opinion"
- “How long can we talk about this?”
- “I’m not interested in hearing your story/opinion about this.”
Obviously, none of the meanings of the girl’s phrase “Oh, that’s it” can be called positive, therefore, having heard this expression, you need to give the correct answer to it, and not “add fuel to the fire” and provoke the development of a conflict.
Correct answer. So that the girl doesn’t get offended, it’s best to respond to her “Oh, that’s it” something like this:
- “Okay, let's not argue over trifles. Let's talk about something more interesting.”
- “Each of us is right in our own way. Let’s leave this topic, tell us better how your day was/what are your plans for tomorrow, etc.”
- “Yes, it’s all unimportant. But today I saw/learned/invented...”
Incorrect answer. If your girlfriend or girlfriend tells you “Oh, that’s it,” do not answer her the following (unless, of course, you want to quarrel with her):
- "Are the arguments over?"
- "All you girls say 'Oh that's it' when you have nothing of substance to say"
- "No, not everything! Listen further..."
Phrase girl "As you want"
Are you familiar with the situation when you ask a girl something, ask for her opinion, and she answers with the short phrase “As you wish”? If yes, then you are also familiar with the bewilderment caused by this answer, because it is not at all clear whether the girl is really inviting you to find a solution yourself or whether she is offended by something.
The meaning of the phrase. A girl’s phrase “As you wish” can have different interpretations, and you need to pay attention to the situation and the reason for which this phrase was said. Depending on the situation, the expression “As you wish” can mean:
- "I don't care, decide for yourself"
- “I have it now and I don’t want to talk about anything.”
- "I'm not entirely sure I want this, but let's try."
- “I previously expressed my opinion on this issue to you 100 times, but if you still haven’t heard me, I don’t see the point in repeating it 101 times, so do as you want.”
Correct answer. Any relationship, and especially love, should be built on trust and mutual understanding, so it is better to make important decisions together, taking into account the opinions and wishes of both. Therefore, if a girl says “As you wish,” it is better to still try to find out her opinion by answering her the following:
- "It's important for me to know what you think about this"
- "If you're not in the mood to discuss this issue now, let's talk about it later."
Incorrect answer. In order not to get into a quarrel out of nowhere, in response to “As you wish,” it is better not to say:
- "I see you don't care about me"
- “Yes, actually, I was going to do as I wanted.”
- "Then I don't care either"
Girl's phrase "I won't be offended"
Most likely, you will hear the phrase “I won’t be offended” from a girl when you tell her that you are going to do something that she won’t like (you won’t go with her to visit her friends or relatives, cancel a date in order to meet with friend, you won’t be able to meet her from work, etc.). Hearing this phrase, guys try to understand whether the girl really won’t be offended, or is she already offended?
The meaning of the phrase. Depending on the situation, the occasion and the person, the phrase “I won’t be offended” can be interpreted as follows:
- “I understand everything and I really won’t be offended.”
- “I’m a little offended, but I won’t show it to you, because I understand that in these circumstances you cannot do otherwise.”
- “I was offended, but I don’t see the point in telling you about it, because you’ll do it your own way anyway.”
Correct answer. So that the girl really doesn’t get offended, especially if due to unforeseen circumstances you had to cancel a date with her or postpone some common affairs, it is better to answer her phrase “I won’t be offended” something like this:
- “I’m sorry that the circumstances turned out this way. I’m glad that you understand everything, you’re my best.”
Incorrect answer. Even if the girl really wasn’t offended, she will get angry when she hears the following words in response to her “I won’t be offended”:
- "So that's great"
- “Yes, I don’t really care”
- "Be offended, don't be offended, I won't change my decision"
Girl's phrase "I'll think about it"
If to a question that implies the answer “Yes” or “No”, the girl answers “I’ll think about it,” this is not very pleasant, because you wanted certainty now. Contrary to popular belief, a woman’s “I’ll think about it” does not always mean “No,” and in order to better understand a girl, it is often enough at the moment when she promised to think about it. For example, if a girl looks you straight in the eyes, does not “close” herself from you with crossed arms or foreign objects (purse, papers, etc.), and her posture is quite relaxed, most likely, a little later she will give you the answer to which You are counting.
The meaning of the phrase. When saying “I’ll think about it,” a girl may mean the following:
- "I want what you want, but I'll play a little and make you worry."
- “I want the same thing as you, but I’m a little afraid, so I need time to convince myself.”
- “This is very unexpected and I need time to make a decision.”
- “I don’t want what you want, but I also don’t want to upset you with an outright refusal.”
- “I don’t want the same thing as you, but I won’t upset you in case I change my mind in the future or need something else from you.”
Correct answer. To persuade a girl to make the decision you want, you can say something like:
- “Yes, I understand that such an important decision is difficult to make right away, but I am sure that you are a smart girl, so you will think about everything carefully and make a positive decision.”
Incorrect answer. Do you want the girl’s phrase “I’ll think about it” to definitely mean “No”? Then answer this phrase like this:
- “What, is it scary to say “No” to your face?
- "Smart people don't have to think long to make a decision"
- “Are you trying to turn me off culturally? It won’t work, I know your intentions very well.”
- "Eh, all my ex-girlfriends told me that they would think..."
The girl's phrase "What are you thinking about?"
The situation is familiar: you are having a great time on a date, watching a movie together or lying in bed and suddenly your girlfriend looks at you and asks “What are you thinking about?” After this phrase, you will definitely think about what she wants to hear and whether you should tell her that at that very moment you were thinking about your work or say something else.
The meaning of the phrase. When asking “What are you thinking about?”, most often a girl means one of two things:
- “You look as if you are completely immersed in yourself and don’t notice me at all. So explain to me what is more important to you at the moment than me?”
- “I doubt that you like me and that you feel good with me. I’m afraid that right now you’re thinking about leaving me. Dispel my fears and convince me otherwise!”
Correct answer. By asking this question, the girl, first of all, wants to make sure that you are interested in her and you do not regret that you are now spending time with her, so it is best not to ask the girl “What are you thinking about?” answer something like this:
- "About the fact that I feel very good with you now"
Incorrect answer. The girl wants you to think about her, and not about something extraneous, when spending time with her. Therefore, to her question “What are you thinking about?” It's better not to answer:
- "About what an incompetent fool my boss is"
- "About which bar to go to tomorrow with friends."
