What does your loved one call you? What does this mean?! What does the guy call him and what does it mean? How to understand how a guy feels? If a man calls you darling.

Why do lovers come up with their own language, intimate nicknames, affectionate names for each other and what do they mean? Psychologists say that their very sound can tell a lot about his true feelings for you. Where do affectionate nicknames come from?

There are two reasons for love word creation - appealing to the “inner child” of a loved one and creating the uniqueness of your relationship, your world. We come up with love nicknames unconsciously, but almost every one of them has a hidden meaning. The more unusual affectionate words appear in the vocabulary of lovers, the deeper and more sincere their relationship becomes.

If love leaves the relationship, then former intimate nicknames are also “forgotten”. When the relationship becomes formal, only one formal nickname, for example, fish, may remain in the vocabulary of lovers - and no more creativity! If creativity continues, it means your relationship is developing!

A little about sounds:

The sound “F” in the affectionate nickname expresses a violent and acute reaction. Typically, words with this sound express acute dissatisfaction (for example, “fu!”). The sound “F” in affectionate nicknames is approximately three times less common than in ordinary speech.

The sound “X” in an affectionate nickname is also extremely rare and speaks of sudden excitement (for example, “ah”, “oh”, etc.).

The sound “SH” in an affectionate nickname is much more common, as it especially attracts attention. In psychology, this effect of hissing sounds on the psyche is called the “white noise” effect. This sound absorbs the listener's attention, causing him to be distracted from everything else. For example, when demanding silence, we say “sh-sh-sh!”

The sound “K” in an affectionate nickname is one of the most common (it can often be found as diminutive suffixes: fish-ka, paw-ka, hare.... It expresses the idea of ​​intimacy, lightness, simplicity

The “L” sound in the affectionate nickname is also one of the most common. Expresses increased emotionality. So, in an elevated mood, we sing “La-la-la, or “Bla-lin”, our emotions rush out. Whether this emotion is good or bad depends on the intonation.

But here’s what’s valuable: when choosing any word, especially a nickname, we do it unconsciously. Our subconscious helps us choose exactly those words whose sound most fully reflects our deepest feelings and desires.

"Kindergarten" . It includes such nicknames as baby, baby, baby.... Children are charming and touching creatures. So we show our loved one that we want to smother him in our arms and take care of him. But at the same time, we make it clear who will “run the show” and thereby support infantilism in him.

"Zoo". Nicknames from the animal world are very common. Just remember the word “doves”, which is used to call lovers! And we often compete in zoology, remembering all the animals - from fish and bunnies to piglets and hippos. Here, of course, there is also a factor of affection (after all, birds and little animals are for the most part cute and fluffy), but a little different than in the case of children's vocabulary. Because the animal world can still be dangerous and unpredictable: what if a tiger cub shows its teeth, or a bird flies out of its cage? There are often affectionate nicknames that refer to funny and exotic animals - hamsters and platypuses: they demonstrate not only romantic, but also friendly feelings for their beloved creature. But just don’t get carried away by them too much - such words dampen passion.

"Toy department" The most characteristic representatives of this order are Dolls and Baby Dolls. They are beautiful, they may even be real works of art, but... Are they completely alive for their owners? If you think about it, what can you do with toys? Dress it in beautiful clothes, put it on a shelf - and admire it. Therefore, if a gentleman calls you a doll, do not be surprised that you are required to perform an exclusively decorative function: after all, you need to show others what a beautiful “doll” he has! However, many are happy with this - after all, they buy dolls such beautiful dresses and houses...

"Movable property". Is there a difference between the expressions “beauty” and “you are my beauty”? Even some. The second option sounds more soulful. But - and hints at “ownership”. Therefore, it is possible that a person who often calls you “one of his own” will one day inquire in a very stern voice where you were from 16.15 to 16.45.

"Heavenly bodies." There is not enough variety here: only “sun” and “star”. What are they associated with? With warmth and light. If a person rewards you with such a nickname, he is comfortable and well with you, however, the luminaries are located quite far from our sinful earth, therefore adoration will be rather distant and contemplative. You are unlikely to expect decisive action from him.

What does your nickname say?

Baby - he is unlikely to be interested in your real feelings, despite the fact that your partner is courting you.

Hippopotamus - the relationship moves into the stage of love-friendship. Your partner respects your independence and feels warm feelings.

Balda, stuffed animal, goat- they are ready to forgive your shortcomings and treat them with humor, they consider you “one of their own” and want to lead in the relationship.

Bun, pie and other “edible” nicknames– your partner treats you as his property, appreciates your spontaneity and sexuality.

Baby, your partner is quite specific and does not intend to complicate anything.

Darling, dear– the partner values ​​constancy, certainty and stability in relationships. But he is not very emotional and therefore feelings come second for him.

Stupid, stupid– Your partner is ready to forgive you for any mistake and completely control the situation.

Hedgehog, hedgehog - Your partner gives your relationship special significance. Sometimes he shows intemperance, but, deep down, he is afraid of losing you.

Toad - Your partner is energetic, playful and assertive, but deep down he really values ​​his love relationship with you.

My life - Pathos reveals your partner’s tendency to overdo it. Carefully find out if he has another “life” on his side.

Hare, bunny, hare, bunny– your loved one is very jealous, has a penchant for excitement and loves to play with you, watching your reaction.

Gold, gold, gold– Your partner emphasizes the importance of your relationship, but his mind still prevails over his feelings.

Kitty, pussy, pussy, pussy– Your partner sees you primarily as a sex partner. Determined to have very close contact, without wanting to complicate the situation.

Goat, goat, little goat– Your partner feels completely close to you. You are indeed a very dear person to him, although sometimes he allows himself to make fun of you a little.

Sweetie - Your partner already considers you his property! Be careful.

Kitten, cat, cat, kitten– Your partner feels complete closeness and an inextricable connection with you. He wants you to believe him, or tries to convince you of his loyalty.

Cat, cat, cat– they see you as sexy and at the same time cunning and fickle.

Crocodile - Your partner is very emotional. Takes a leadership position in relationships.

Krokozyabra - Your partner is ready to forgive you for any mistake. He is often unrestrained and picky, but his grudges do not last long.

Doll, doll - Your partner is slightly attracted to you, but does not take your relationship seriously.

Paw, paw, paw– Your partner is very energetic. Values ​​your relationship and is ready to work and live for you.

Swallow - Your partner completely trusts you and is confident in your feelings for each other.

Little fox, fox, fox– All your partner’s attention is focused only on you. And he expects the same feelings from you.

Beloved, beloved, love– Your partner is ready to act assertively and decisively, but at the same time he is too emotional and unrestrained.

Lyalya, Lyalik - Your partner is so emotional that he often cannot control the outburst of his own feelings - both good and bad.

Little, little, Masik, Masya– Your partner has a deep feeling for you and wants to take care of you.

Macaque, monkey, little monkey– The feelings you evoke in your partner are immeasurable. You have a very trusting relationship with each other with a touch of friendly irony. They consider you “one of their own” and want to lead in the relationship, especially if they add the word “Mine” For example: My monkey.

Baby, baby - Your partner experiences reverent feelings for you and at the same time passion. But he expects the same from you.

Teddy Bear - Your partner is a very cautious person, prefers to weigh the pros and cons before taking any step. Values ​​your relationship and is afraid of losing it.

Sweetheart, darling - Your partner will love you with both his heart and mind. And very attached to you.

Mulya, Musya, Musipusechka– your partner experiences a strong feeling of both love and passion for you.

Mouse, little mouse - Your partner’s feelings go beyond, even if this is not visible from his behavior. Sometimes your partner can be too hot-tempered, but he appreciates you and values ​​your relationship.

Pampushka - Your partner, deep down, fears that his feelings are not reciprocated and longs for you to show your love for him.

Half, dear, dear- speaks of deep feelings, strong affection.

Donut - Your partner is afraid that you will pay attention to someone else, and is trying in every possible way to attract your attention.

Belly, belly, tele-belly– Your partner is clearly committed to creating and arranging a family home, and this thought captivates him.

Baby doll, baby doll, baby doll, baby doll– Your partner is trying in every possible way to get closer to you, attracting your attention, but behind this there are not so much feelings as practical interest.

Fish, fish - In your relationship with your partner, the first place is not romance, but practical interest; practical calculation is possible.

Pig, piggy, piggy– Your partner energetically calls you for contact and is ready to take the situation into his own hands.

Sweet, sweet– Your partner is a confident and calm, balanced person. However, he tries to look more emotional than he actually is.

Baby elephant– Your partner is completely focused only on you. He is very attached to you and expects complete reciprocity from you.

Sun, sunshine, sunshine– Your partner has very warm and tender feelings for you.

Tiger, tiger cub - Your partner values ​​equality in relationships. And despite the fact that he likes to make fun of you, he treats you with great respect.

Tiger, tigress, lioness, lion– Your partner respects you, values ​​your relationship, and has passionate feelings for you.

Hamster - Your partner is very emotional and easily makes and changes his decisions.

Chicken, chicken - Your partner is trying to get closer to you, but he is not completely sure about your relationship.

Miracle, monster - Your partner persistently demands that you show your feelings and pay more attention to him.

Shmusik, lyalyabrik, chvirchik– the beloved emphasizes the uniqueness of your relationship, is open and tender in love.

Chocolate - Your partner offers you a simple, easy relationship, but in reality you absorb all his attention and deep down he expects the same from you.

Berry - Your partner is energetic, self-confident and values ​​his independence. Feelings come second for him.

Mom, mother, dad, dad- They see you as a parent and expect care and protection from you.

Derivatives from last name, first name, patronymic- Mikhalych, Maksimych, Petrovna - the attitude towards you is friendly and ironic, there is little tenderness and sexuality in such relationships.

Mine, mine - you are clearly considered property, ready for care and giving.

Pet names

Many couples do not like to use animal and doll names and prefer to use passport names, but in a diminutive version. It turns out that options are possible here too!

Suffixes “-ochka”, “-echka”(Svetochka, Kolechka) are often attached to the names of not only the closest, but also, in fact, strangers: acquaintances, colleagues. They express the very fact of having positive feelings for this person or even just your good mood.

Soft “-enka” or “-inka”(Mashenka, Serezhenka) appears when we want to take care, warm and comfort.

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Why do people in love often come up with intimate nicknames, their own language and their own names for each other? What do they mean? Psychologists say that even the sound alone can tell a lot about a person’s real feelings for you. Where do these nicknames come from?

There are two reasons for this kind of love creativity: making your relationship unique and appealing to your inner child. We unconsciously come up with affectionate nicknames, but almost every one of them has a secret meaning.


Affectionate nicknames


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The more cheerful and affectionate words appear in the speech of lovers, the more sincere and deeper their relationship becomes. When love leaves a relationship, then the partners also forget about what they once called each other. If the relationship turns into a formality, then one formal nickname remains in the couple’s vocabulary, for example, fish. Creativity ends, but if it continues, this indicates that the relationship continues to develop.

Let's talk a little about sounds.

The sound “SH” in a nickname can be found quite often, because it attracts attention. Psychologists call this effect of hissing sounds on the psyche the white noise effect. This sound completely captures the listener's attention, distracting him from everything else. For example, when a person demands silence, he says “sh-sh-sh”.


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The "L" sound in a nickname is the most common sound. With its help, a person expresses a high degree of emotionality. A person in a good mood will hum "la-la-la" or say "bl-lin" when emotions come out. Whether good or bad emotions burst out depends on the intonation.

The "K" sound is also quite common in nicknames. It can be found in the diminutive words we use to call our loved ones: sweetheart, fish, hare, etc. With its help, the idea of ​​simplicity, intimacy and lightness is expressed.


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The sound "F", present in the nickname, helps to express a violent reaction. As a rule, words with this sound indicate serious dissatisfaction (for example, “ugh!”). This sound is three times less likely to be found in affectionate nicknames than in ordinary speech.

The "X" sound is also very rare in nicknames. When in words, it speaks of sudden excitement and excitement.

It is important to note that when we choose an affectionate nickname for a loved one, we do it without thinking. With the help of our subconscious, we choose exactly those words whose sound most accurately reflects our desires and feelings.

The meaning of affectionate nicknames

What are some affectionate nicknames?


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Zoo nicknames

Such nicknames are quite common. Just look at the word “doves”, which is used to describe a couple in love. Often people even compete in zoology, sorting through all the animals, from bunnies with fish to hippos and piglets.

Here, of course, there is an endearment factor, since the animals and birds are mostly fluffy and cute. However, the emotion here is not entirely simple, because the animal world can be quite unpredictable and dangerous: for example, a tiger cub can show its teeth, and a bird can fly out of its cage.

Also often found are affectionate nicknames based on the names of exotic animals, such as hamsters or platypuses. Such nicknames indicate not only the presence of romantic feelings. The partner also demonstrates friendly emotions towards his loved one. However, you shouldn’t get too carried away with such words, as they quietly sweep passion out of the relationship.

Nicknames from the category "kindergarten"


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Among such nicknames we can distinguish such as baby, baby, baby, etc. Children are beautiful and charming creatures. So we want to show our loved one that we want to take care of him and strangle him in our arms. However, at the same time, we unconsciously make it clear who is boss in the house, reluctantly supporting our partner’s immaturity.

Nicknames from the "toy department" category


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The most common representatives of this department are baby dolls and dolls. They are very beautiful, maybe even real works of art, but are they alive enough for their “owners”? Think about what we usually do with beautiful toys? We put on beautiful clothes, put them on the shelf and admire them.

Therefore, if a boyfriend says that you are a doll, you may not be surprised that he only needs a decorative function from you, because those around him should see what a beautiful doll he has found for himself. To be fair, it should be noted that many women are satisfied with this role, because they buy dolls very beautiful houses and dresses.

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Nicknames from the category of "movable property"


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Do you think there is a difference between the phrases: “you are my beauty” and “you are beautiful”? Of course have. The first option sounds deeper and more soulful, but there is a slight hint of ownership. Therefore, it is not at all impossible that one fine day a person who considers you “one of his own” will, with all sternness in his voice, inquire about what you did from 15.15 to 15.45.

Nicknames from the category "celestial bodies"

There is no diversity here, just suns and stars. What associations do they evoke? Light and warmth. If a loved one calls you that, it means that he feels good and comfortable with you. But there is one “but”. The luminaries are located quite far from our planet, therefore adoration on his part will most likely be somewhat contemplative and distant. It is difficult to wait for decisive action from such a person.

Now let's decipher the meaning of each specific nickname. You shouldn’t take the meanings too seriously, just take note and don’t forget that there is a grain of humor in every joke.

Nickname meaning


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Baby - your partner is not particularly interested in your true feelings, despite the fact that he is caring for you.

Balda, scarecrow - your partner is ready to forgive your shortcomings, he treats you with humor, considers you his own and wants to dominate the relationship.

Hippopotamus - your relationship is in the love-friendship stage. Your partner has very warm feelings towards you and respects your independence.

A bun and other edible things - your partner perceives you as his property, appreciates your sexuality and spontaneity.

Baby, you have a very specific partner who doesn’t like to complicate things.

Dear, dear - a person values ​​stability, certainty and constancy in relationships. Feelings come second for him because he is not very emotional.


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Stupid, stupid - your partner is ready to take control of the situation and forgive your mistakes.

Hedgehog, hedgehog - such a person values ​​​​your relationship very much, it means a lot to him. He is often not restrained, he is very afraid of losing you in the depths of his soul.

Zhabka - your loved one is assertive, playful and energetic, but deep down, your relationship is very dear to him.

My life is a rather pretentious nickname that reveals in your partner a tendency to overdo it. Try to very carefully ask him if he has another “life” on his side.


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Bunny, hare, bunny, bunny - your loved one is quite jealous, passionate, he likes to play with you, while watching your reaction.

Gold, gold, gold - your partner values ​​your relationship, he is guided by reason, not feelings.

Pussy, kitty and derivatives - such a person first of all sees his partner as a sexual object. He doesn't want to complicate things and is committed to close contact.

What do pet nicknames mean?


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Goat, goat - your partner feels complete intimacy with you. You are the closest person to him, he very often makes fun of you.

Sweetie - your partner has long considered you property. Be careful!

Kitten, kitten, kitten - your partner feels that the connection with you is inextricable. He is trying to convince you of his loyalty and wants you to believe him.

Cat, cat, cat - your partner sees inconstancy, cunning and sexuality in you.

Crocodile - you have a very emotional partner who takes a leading position in the relationship.


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Krokozyabra - your loved one is ready to forgive you everything, while he is picky, unrestrained, but does not know how to hold grudges for a long time.

Doll, doll - your partner is interested in you, but does not take your relationship seriously.

Lapula, paw, lapusik - you have an energetic partner who values ​​your relationship and is also ready to live and work for you.

Swallow - your partner trusts you 100%, is confident in the feelings you have for each other.

Chanterelle, little fox, fox - the partner’s attention is focused only on you, he expects the same from you.


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Beloved, beloved, love - such a partner is somewhat unrestrained, emotional, but at the same time ready to act decisively and assertively.

Lyalik, Lyalya is a very emotional partner who often does not control his feelings, both good and bad.

Little, Masik, Little, Masya - your partner’s feelings are very deep, he wants to look after you and cares about you.

Macaque, monkey, monkey - your partner’s feelings towards you are immeasurable. Your relationship is very trusting and contains friendly irony. Your partner considers you his own person; he wants to be the leader in the relationship, especially if he adds “mine” to such a nickname.

Baby, baby - your loved one experiences passion for you and at the same time warm and reverent feelings. He expects the same from you.


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Little Bear - you have come across a very cautious person who always prefers to carefully weigh the pros and cons before taking a responsible step. He is afraid of losing you and values ​​your relationship.

Darling, dear - a person is very attached to you, loves you with his mind and heart.

Musya, mulya, musipusechka - the partner’s feelings are very stormy, there is love and passion.

Little mouse, little mouse - this man’s feelings are far beyond the bounds, even if you can’t tell so from his behavior. Sometimes your partner can be too hot-tempered, but your relationship is very important to him, he values ​​you.

Mother, mom, dad, dad - a person sees you as a parent and expects protection and care from you.

My, my - partner considers you his property, he is ready to give and care.

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Pampushka - deep down your person is worried that you don’t feel the same as him, your partner craves manifestations of your love.

Kindred, dear, soul mate - this is a strong attachment, deep feelings.

Donut - your person is worried that someone else will like you, so he is trying in every possible way to attract your attention.

Girls, be careful about the affectionate nicknames your partners give you! All "names" are in alphabetical order.


Baby - Your partner actively calls you for contact, but your real feelings are of little interest to him.

Hippo - Your partner’s feelings are absorbed by you, he is attentive, respects your independence, but is not averse to playing.

Baby – Your partner is specific and does not tend to complicate things. Perhaps he lacks a sense of humor.

Dear, dear – Your partner in a relationship values ​​confidence and certainty. Feelings come second for him.

Durynda - Your partner is ready to forgive you for any mistake. He is energetic and ready to take control of the situation.

Hedgehog, hedgehog - Your partner gives your relationship special significance. Sometimes he can be unrestrained, but deep down
afraid of losing you.

Toad – Your partner is energetic and playfully assertive, but deep down he values ​​your relationship very much.

My life - Pathos reveals your partner’s tendency to overdo it. Just in case, check if he has another “life” somewhere on the side.

Hare, bunny, hare, bunny - Your partner is prone to excitement and is not averse to playing with you. Don't be fooled by his appearance - deep down he is jealous and watches you closely.

Gold, gold, gold - Your partner emphasizes the importance of your relationship, although his mind prevails over his feelings.

Kitty, pussy, pussy, pussy - Your partner is in the mood for close contact and does not want to complicate the situation.

Goat, goat, booger - Your partner feels complete intimacy with you. You are a very dear person to him, although he is not averse to teasing you.

Sweetie - Be careful: your partner reacts very strongly to your behavior and seems to consider you his property.

Kitten, cat, kitten, kitten - Your partner feels closeness and an inextricable connection with you. He wants you to believe him, or tries to convince you of his loyalty.

Crocodile - Your partner is emphatically energetic. He is not in the mood to beat around the bush and is not inclined to hold back his emotions for long.

Krokozyabra - Your partner is ready to forgive you for any mistake. He is often unrestrained and picky, but his grudges do not last long.

Doll, doll - Your partner is passionate about you, but hardly attaches too much importance to your relationship.

Paw, lapulya, lapusik - your partner is very active and ready to work and live for you.

Swallow - Your partner is very attentive and absolutely confident in you.

Fox, fox, fox - All the attention of your partner is absorbed by you and he expects the same from you.

Beloved, beloved, love - Your partner is prone to sensual excess and is ready to act decisively and assertively.

Lyalya, Lyalik - Your partner is not at all inclined to restrain his feelings.

Little, little, Masik, Masya - Your partner’s feelings are very deep, he is ready to be caring and attentive.

Baby, baby – The feelings you evoke in your partner are immeasurable. You absorb all his attention, and he expects the same from you.

Teddy Bear - Your partner is a very sensual person, but is not in a hurry. He is careful and doesn't want to lose you.

Sweetheart, darling - Your partner promises you a strong relationship. His feelings are in balance with his mind.

Mulya, Musya, Musipusechka - The feelings that you evoke in your partner are very strong. He tends to get carried away and often does not know the limits.

Mouse, little mouse - Your partner’s feelings go beyond, even if this is not visible from his behavior. Sometimes he can be short-tempered, but he is very attached to you.

Pampushka - Your partner expects complete intimacy and interaction.

Donut - Your partner wants to attract your attention with all his might. Subconsciously, he seeks to protect himself from possible rivals.

Belly, belly, tele-belly - your partner is clearly committed to creating and arranging a family home, and this thought captivates him.

Baby doll, baby doll, baby doll, baby doll - your partner is looking for full contact with you, but most likely, behind this there are not so much feelings as practical interest.

Fish - Your partner views your relationship rather in a business-like manner. He puts first place not romance, but practical interest.

Pig, piggy, piggy - Your partner energetically calls you for contact and is ready to take the situation into his own hands.

Sweet, sweet - Your partner consciously emphasizes his emotionality. At the same time, in his soul he is balanced and calm.

Baby elephant, baby elephant - Your partner attaches great importance to your relationship. His emotions are focused on you, and he expects complete reciprocity.

Sun, sunshine, sunshine - your partner experiences genuine tenderness and keen interest in you.

Tiger, tiger cub - Your partner respects your independence. He is not averse to making fun of you, but in fact he is offering you an equal union.

Hamster - Your partner is prone to impulsive actions and can easily succumb to momentary impulses.

Chicken, chicken - Your partner offers you active contact, but, perhaps, deep down he is afraid of something.

Miracle, monster - Your partner literally demands your attention, emphasizing the importance of your relationship.

Chocolate - Your partner offers you a simple, easy relationship, but in reality you absorb all his attention and deep down he expects the same from you.

Berry - Your partner is energetic, self-confident and values ​​his independence. Feelings come second for him.

We can guess as much as we want about a man’s true attitude towards us. It doesn't matter how long you've been together. We girls have different situations and circumstances that make us doubt his love. These doubts eat us away from the inside, destroying ourselves and our relationships, giving rise to feelings such as jealousy, self-doubt, and fear of loss.
We can ask a man the question as much as we like: “Do you love me?” - but you probably don’t even like asking him about it. And whatever the answer, it is not always able to dispel your doubts.
In general, asking about love when there are doubts in your soul is somehow awkward, you feel like some kind of beggar. Can you imagine for a moment how the beautiful Jolie runs around the house after her husband Brad Pitt and asks: “Honey, do you love me?” Kind of stupid, don't you agree?
And if Jolie doesn't do it, then you shouldn't either. Firstly, if your man really loves you, this does not mean that he should tell you about it every half hour. He will not do this, if only because his, a man’s, love is fundamentally different from a woman’s. Women's love stands the test of time, logic and circumstances. If we have chosen our man, we will follow him through thick and thin. Even if your friends tell you that he is worthless and no matter how many times he himself put an end to your relationship, you will devote all of yourself to him. And you expect the same attitude from him. But this is unrealistic. Men love differently. And whatever it is, male love is also love. And if you understand exactly how a man loves, you will find out if he really gives you all of himself. Is it possible to find out if he loves you? - Yes. Typically a loving man does three things.

Declares

Pay attention to how your loved one introduces you to other people: their friends, business partners or relatives. If he says, for example: “This is my girlfriend / baby / beloved” - in one word he gives you a title that goes beyond the notorious friend zone, it means he loves you. If a man calls you “his,” it means he really thinks so and informs everyone about it, because his intentions are serious and pure.
If he introduces you as a friend or simply calls you by name, be sure that it is so - you are just his friend. Deep down in your soul you know this yourself, right?
But as soon as he gives you any title, you immediately understand that the man is making a statement. He declares his intentions towards you.

Provides

As soon as a man claims his rights to you, he immediately begins to earn money exclusively for you. After all, now you are his family. The primary purpose of a man is to be a breadwinner and provider. A man who tries to force the idea of ​​equality and financial independence on you is simply fooling you. A man who is able to provide for his woman and children always feels more significant than one who lives for himself. If you feel that he is doing less for your relationship than he could, he is not a man, or rather, he is not your man. Of course, today we often hear from some men that modern women are somehow selfish, almost extortionists. And often we have to prove the sincerity of our feelings, without pretending to anything. But in fact, this is a trick created by men without serious intentions: this way they can save their money and get everything they need from a woman. What if your man has no money? He will still do everything to satisfy your needs. He will help and try for you in everything.

Protects

If a man loves you, he will crush anyone who dares to think badly of you and somehow offend you. If you have been offended, a loving man will go and stand up for you and your honor. Any self-respecting man will protect what belongs to him. If, in response to a terrible story about how someone insulted you, he just shakes his head or even gets angry, but does not take any action, something is wrong. When a man loves, most likely, you won’t even want to talk about the fact that someone offended you, because he will go to sort it out, and we all understand that this can end badly.
Of course, defense is not only about the use of brute physical force. A man who truly loves protects in other ways: he can give valuable advice or volunteer to do something that, in his opinion, is unsafe for you. He will never send you to the store late at night or to walk the dog, he will do everything himself, even if he hasn’t slept for more than two days.

Friends and “partners” of the opposite sex often call each other not by their real names, but by nicknames and affectionate nicknames. Most often, people do not think about the sound of these nicknames. There is a complete analogy with a person’s name - sounds and words carry a certain energy, in addition to the meaning of the names themselves.

Often, affectionate nicknames for girls and boys use the sound “K” (for example, as a suffix “-ka”). In terms of emotional state, "k" expresses the idea of ​​intimacy, simplicity and ease.

The sound “Ш”, according to statistics, generally occurs 3 times more often than in ordinary dictionary words. The sound “sh” distracts your partner from everything around him, allowing him to focus on you. Similarly, this sound is used in simple communication to require silence: “chsh-sh-sh...”

The “L” sound is also very popular in affectionate nicknames, giving the word an emotional connotation.

The sounds “X” and “F”, on the contrary, are used in affectionate nicknames much less frequently than in ordinary conversation, because most often they express dissatisfaction.

Using certain nicknames, a person does not particularly think about the emotional coloring of the sounds included in this word - everything happens unconsciously. Words are chosen subconsciously, reflecting deep feelings and experiences.

How can you find out what your loved one really thinks when calling him by this or that nickname? Below we present you a list of the most common affectionate nicknames, as well as the true meaning of the feelings of the person who uses these nicknames in communication. With the help of this interpretation, you will be able to understand the real feelings of your loved one towards you.

The meaning of affectionate nicknames

Baby - Your partner actively calls you for contact (most often with sexual intentions), but your real feelings are of little interest to him. Hippo - Your partner’s feelings are absorbed by you, he is attentive, respects your independence, but is not averse to playing.
Baby – Your partner is specific and does not tend to complicate things. Perhaps he lacks a sense of humor. Dear, dear – Your partner in a relationship values ​​confidence and certainty. Feelings come second for him.
Durynda - Your partner is ready to forgive you for any mistake. He is energetic and ready to take control of the situation. Hedgehog, hedgehog - Your partner gives your relationship special significance. Sometimes he can be unrestrained, but deep down he is afraid of losing you.
Toad – Your partner is energetic and playfully assertive, but deep down he values ​​your relationship very much. My life - Pathos reveals your partner’s tendency to overdo it. Just in case, it’s better to check if he has another “life” attachment somewhere on the side.
Hare, bunny, hare, bunny - Your partner is prone to excitement and is not averse to playing with you. Don't be fooled by his appearance - deep down he is jealous and watches you closely. Gold, gold, gold - Your partner emphasizes the importance of your relationship, although his mind greatly prevails over his feelings.
Kitty, pussy, pussy, pussy - Your partner is in the mood for close contact and does not want to complicate the situation. Goat, goat, booger - Your partner feels complete intimacy with you. You are a very dear person to him, although he is not averse to teasing you.
Sweetie - Be careful, your partner reacts very strongly to your behavior and seems to consider you his property. Kitten, cat, kitten, kitten - Your partner feels closeness and an inextricable connection with you. He wants you to believe him, or tries to convince you of his loyalty.
Crocodile - Your partner is emphatically energetic. He is not in the mood to beat around the bush and is not inclined to hold back his emotions for long. Krokozyabra - Your partner is ready to forgive you for any mistake. Often his behavior seems unrestrained and picky, but he does not hold grudges for long.
Doll, doll - Your partner is passionate about you, but does not attach too much importance to the relationship. Paw, lapulya, lapusik - your partner is very active and ready to work and live for you.
Swallow - Your partner is very attentive and absolutely confident in you. Fox, fox, fox - All the attention of your partner is absorbed by you and he expects the same from you.
Beloved, beloved, love - Your partner is prone to sensual excess and is ready to act decisively and assertively. Lyalya, Lyalik - Your partner is not at all inclined to restrain his feelings.
Little, little, Masik, Masya - Your partner’s feelings are very deep, he is ready to be caring and attentive. Baby, baby – the feelings you evoke in your partner are immeasurable. You absorb all his attention, and he expects the same from you.
Bear - Your partner is a very sensual person, but is not in a hurry. He is careful and doesn't want to lose you. Sweetheart, darling - Your partner promises you a strong relationship. His feelings are in balance with his mind.
Mulya, Musya, Musipusechka - the feelings you evoke in your partner are very strong. He tends to get carried away and often does not know the limits. Mouse, little mouse - Your partner’s feelings go beyond, even if this is not visible from his behavior. Occasionally he can be intemperate, but he is very attached to you.
Pampushka - Your partner expects complete intimacy and interaction. Donut - Your partner wants to attract your attention with all his might. Subconsciously, he seeks to protect himself from possible rivals.
Belly, belly, tele-belly - your partner is clearly committed to creating and arranging a family home, and this thought captivates him. Baby doll, baby doll, baby doll, baby doll - your partner is looking for full contact with you, but most likely, behind this there are not so much feelings as practical interest.
Fish - Your partner views your relationship rather in a business-like manner. He puts first place not romance, but practical interest. Pig, piggy, piggy - Your partner energetically calls you for contact and is ready to take the situation into his own hands.
Sweet, sweet - Your partner consciously emphasizes his emotionality. At the same time, in his soul he is balanced and calm. Baby elephant, baby elephant - Your partner attaches great importance to your relationship. His emotions are focused on you, and he expects complete reciprocity.
Sun, sunshine, sunshine - your partner experiences genuine tenderness and keen interest in you. Tiger, tiger cub - Your partner respects your independence. He is not averse to making fun of you, but in fact he is offering you an equal union.
Hamster - Your partner is prone to impulsive actions and can easily succumb to momentary impulses. Chicken, chicken - Your partner offers you active contact, but, perhaps, deep down he is afraid of something.
Miracle, monster - Your partner literally demands your attention, emphasizing the importance of your relationship. Chocolate - Your partner offers you a simple, easy relationship, but in reality you absorb all his attention and deep down he expects the same from you.
Berry - Your partner is energetic, self-confident and values ​​his independence. Feelings come second for him.

The most affectionate nicknames

In our opinion, the following nicknames look the most affectionate.

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