Remember how, as children, we clung to the TV screen when our favorite film “The Three Musketeers” was shown. How we admired the fearless troika of musketeers and sang along with the young D. Artagnan “It’s time, it’s time, let’s rejoice in our lifetime.” And how unpleasant the cunning Cardinal Richelieu, Rochefort and the most bad guy novel - Milady. She - Countess de La Fère, Lady Winter - constantly pursued our heroes, carried out intrigues and brought death with her. But at the same time, some force attracted to this woman branded with a lily flower, her strength and cunning also deserved admiration...
Terekhova - Milady
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I don't believe in a child.
On all psychological sites they write: the main thing is faith in the child, support from the parents.
Great, gentlemen psychologists.
What if there is no faith in the child? Well, you don't believe in him.
Always stupid children, children with disabilities, unteachable - they are somewhere out there, far away, in other families.
And here you are talking about faith.
What if you have? If you yourself have an unteachable, degenerating child?
Whereas? Chant “We believe in ourselves!”, like in the finale of the movie “Requiem for a Dream”?
Spit and not study at all?
So the public is putting pressure.
- Oh, he’ll go to a school for fools (and that’s where he belongs anyway,
because he is a fool)!
- Oh, you yourself are ruining your child.
- But they work with Tanya-Kolya-Petya, and they make progress, but you don’t study, and Vasya loses his skills.
How to deal with it? How to force yourself? How to force him, Egyptian power?
So he sat down to study - and the province went for a walk:
You put your finger in a book, and he plays with cars with his other hand.
If you put the cars away, it just spins.
You try to read a book - he interrupts every word and speaks some kind of heresy.
And he also yells, yells, yells, spits (sorry) on your clothes, points his finger in your eyes, throws things...
Sometimes I want to talk about my problem.
But who will you talk to?
With husband? He himself is terrified.
With parents? They won’t listen, they will say: “It’s my own fault,” or “I don’t have the nerves for all these things.”
It’s good when you can just say “I don’t have enough nerves” and go home (hang up the phone, leave Skype...).
But you cannot afford such luxury. You must spend the rest of your life next to this child.
Every day, day after day. Always. You're on life sentence, darling.
And you are always to blame, no matter what you do.
Do you give me pills? - Badly. Won't you give it? - even worse.
Are you working out - breaking down - yelling? It’s bad, you can’t yell, it weakens the child’s already pampered system,
who jumps on your head while you lie half dead.
Not working out? It’s bad - the child doesn’t shine even now, but he will grow up even more brilliantly.
I went for a walk with him on the street, did he beat up passers-by? Not good, take him home.
Are you staying at home with him? It’s bad, the child needs to move.
In short, it’s bad from all sides, no matter how you look at it. For others, she is bad, but for herself, she is the embodiment of evil on earth.
You can go to the forum - there you will pick up so much swearing that it lasts on average for six months.
Phew, I spoke out.
Let's chat, shall we?
Tell us about your difficulties with children and how you overcame them. Or they didn’t overcome it.
If you really want to run in with slippers, well, run over, what should we do with you now...
Maria
Hello girls everyone. I lost it today wedding ring, while I was working on the meat, I decided to take it off and put it on the table, and forgot to put it on. After that, the table was wiped down many times and my ring was still missing! Everything has already been searched, every corner. Now what to do with your husband's ring? Should I wear it the same or put it off for now? We are not painted, we just started wearing them in 2017. They were planning to sign next summer.
265The more I sleep, the less harm I do
Good afternoon
What can you say about classes in paid speed reading schools?
I looked, they have a network in almost all cities. What is this, really useful? Some reviews write that it is harmful to teach children speed reading; grammar supposedly suffers later..
Girls from Ufa, tell me some good development activities, sections, dances... Right now there are registrations everywhere for September...
Thanks to everyone who will unsubscribe.
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Girls, please support.
I live with my husband and 4-year-old child. I started work relatively recently, I’m just getting used to it and life is getting better. But things got worse with my husband. He stopped funding me completely. They don’t even give us money for travel or groceries. He is looking for something in my things, looking at the contents of my bag, pockets, reading the messenger on my phone, reading my browser history. She dressed me wrong, put the plate in the wrong place, etc. She reproaches me with new clothes. It became very difficult. No hello, no answer. He goes to his parents, communicates with relatives, and I’m still at work or alone with the child on weekends.
The topic of divorce arose a long time ago. But I was not ready to move into rented housing with a child. One day he changed the locks in the apartment in my absence. The child was 6 months old. I stood for 5 hours with the child in my arms in the entrance (((then my parents did not support me, there was simply nowhere to go, there was no one to leave the child with... Then, apparently, he took pity and let me live. There was a lot of things. But I just couldn’t decide to leave. It sucked me in like a swamp It seems that I can’t arrange my life, I won’t earn money for housing.
Support positive experience. I am depressed and desperate.
161Our article will tell you about unusual girl, whose story inspires many people today and gives hope for the best. Her mother is Russian politician and Deputy Chairman of the State Duma of the Russian Federation Irina Khakamada. Maria Sirotinskaya was born with Down syndrome, but her family loves her for who she is. The support of her family helped her gain confidence in herself, find many favorite hobbies, and gave her hope for happiness in the future.
The fruit of great love
Talking about her unusual child, Irina skillfully controls her emotions. She shows no signs of worry and speaks about her daughter with love and tenderness.
The girl’s father is Khakamada’s fourth husband, Vladimir Sirotinsky, who runs a financial consulting business. According to the politician, Maria was a long-suffering and much-desired child.
Irina Mutsuovna already had a son, Daniil, and had a bad experience family life when she met her future husband. Next to him, she again found feminine happiness, felt loved and desired. Irina dreamed of giving her beloved man a child, and Vladimir himself believed that their small family should have a common child.
The couple were afraid of the risks, because Irina was over forty when she found out about the long-awaited pregnancy. The fears were confirmed. Immediately after birth (in 1997), the girl was diagnosed with Down syndrome.
Misfortune never comes alone
As Irina Khakamada told the press, Maria grew up healthy child. But in 2003 she was diagnosed terrible disease- leukemia. Fortunately, the disease was diagnosed at an early stage, and therefore the chances of success were great.
Masha was treated in Russia. Talking about this difficult period, Irina Mutsuovna speaks with great gratitude about the doctors who did everything possible for her baby. In difficult times, family and friends helped a lot.
The disease has subsided. Although Masha has to undergo regular examinations, nothing threatens her health.
Special girl
Maria Sirotinskaya, Khakamada’s daughter, like other people with the same diagnosis, loves creativity and does not know how to be offended. According to her mother, Masha is very kind and is never sad for a long time. She doesn't really like the exact sciences, but she loves everything related to dance, theater and art.
The girl was not only able to get a secondary education. She went to college to become a ceramicist.
Talking about her daughter, Irina says that she taught a lot to everyone around her. Maria treats people sincerely and loves them only because she has them. Her selflessness and frankness are disarming, in her big heart there is a good ray for everyone.
The right to be happy
At the age of 18, Masha met Vlad Sitdikov, with whom they not only quickly found mutual language, but also fell in love with each other. Today it is known that Irina Khakamada’s daughter Maria received a marriage proposal from her lover, and the couple is planning a wedding.
The announcement of the decision to get married was made in live program “Let Them Talk,” where the couple was invited to film. Vlad and Masha talked about the lives of people with Down syndrome, shared their dreams, and boasted about their achievements. When they announced their intention, it came as a surprise to many.
Everyone has the right to happiness. Khakamada’s daughter Maria decided to marry unexpectedly for her family, but her relatives supported her desire.
Irina says that people with Down syndrome do not like to draw a line between real world and the world of dreams, so sometimes it can be difficult to understand when they are serious and when they are joking. But, apparently, Masha and Vlad are firm in their decision.
Future son-in-law of the famous mother-in-law
Who is he, Mary's chosen one? Vlad is a couple of years older than his beloved, he has the same diagnosis as her. He is sociable, active and a kind person. The guy loves sports, and he has already achieved considerable success: Vlad Sitdikov is the world champion in the bench press in his weight category. In addition, the young man is interested in sports journalism.
About myself and the “children of the Sun”
Since Irina Khakamada began posting photos of Maria online, public interest in the girl has only been growing. Masha is not afraid of attention, she is calm in front of the cameras, she behaves confidently and sincerely when she gives interviews.
The support of family and lover helps a girl to believe in herself. Like most “sunny children”, Maria had to deal with misunderstanding, but today she has learned to laugh at old stereotypes.
At the beginning of 2017, Maria and Vlad took part in the project of the Love Syndrome Foundation. They starred in a video about special people, in which they and their friends were asked to comment on the most common misconceptions about people with Down syndrome. Masha talked about how they know how to study and be creative, Vlad shared the story of his sporting successes.
But it is very difficult for such people to do things that are familiar to many! But not at all because of health problems, but because of the cautious and unfair attitude of society.
Maria and Vlad believe that by participating in such projects, they help similar people find themselves, gain confidence, and believe in their dreams. The guys performing in the video convince us that sports, science, travel, art, love are for everyone, and not for a select few.
Masha shares photos with social media subscribers. When you look at her smiling face in sunny pictures, it becomes clear that her life is actually full of joy and adventure. This means that everyone can live the way they dream.
Hoping for the best
Irina Khakamada's daughter Maria is not only person with Down syndrome who leads a normal and interesting life.
Today, educational work is carried out by many teachers, psychologists, defectologists and doctors. Concerned people are trying to tell more about those who were born with an unusual set of chromosomes. Parents of “sunny children” do not stand aside either. For example, who learned about her son’s diagnosis even before his birth. The artist talks about the life of little Semyon, shares his photographs, and strives to convey to people that Down syndrome is not a disease, but a feature with which one can lead a full life.
According to psychologists, teachers and social educators, such children are teachable, but require a different approach. They are kind and incapable of knowingly causing harm. Social skills are more difficult for them to acquire, but patience and love can work wonders.
Maria Sirotinskaya and Vlad SitdikovToday, Channel One aired the program “Male/Female,” dedicated to the socialization and achievements of people with Down syndrome.
The host of the program, Evelina Bledans, urged her followers on Instagram to definitely watch the program “About our Olympic champions, about the village “Svetlana” near St. Petersburg, where people with special needs live, and which, of course, needs help (the score will be posted on the screen), as well as about the upcoming wedding of Irina Khakamada’s daughter, Masha Sirotinskaya, and a guy with Down syndrome, Vlad Sitdikov.” (The author’s spelling and punctuation have been preserved. - Ed.).
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Participants in the program “Male/Female”
20-year-old Maria Sirotinskaya has been dating Vlad Sitdikov for several years. In July, the young people vacationed together in Greece, from where Maria sent her mother romantic photographs from the sea coast.
On the air of the “Male/Female” program, Maria and Vlad told viewers the story of their relationship and talked about the depth of their feelings. The lovers treat each other with care and do not hide the fact that they are serious.
Irina Khakamada’s daughter calls Vlad very responsive and kind: “My beloved person,” Maria summed up. Sitdikov, in turn, did not skimp on compliments to his chosen one: “She is very cheerful, I like how she laughs loudly.”
During the program, Alexander Gordon asked when the wedding will take place. Maria, embarrassed, gave the floor to her beloved. In turn, Vlad limited himself to a brief: “Not soon yet,” but immediately turned to the TV presenter with a request:
“Alexander, you are a highly respected and experienced person. I want you to become my matchmaker, because you know Masha’s mother well.”
Alexander Gordon did not remain silent and made it clear that he fully approved of Sirotinskaya’s choice: “I promise you that since I know Ira, I will definitely talk to her. I’ll tell you what impression you made on me, how happy Masha is next to you. I think it will grow together.”
Maria Sirotinskaya told TV viewers that she dreams of creating good family, marry your loved one and have children. But her plans don’t stop there:
“I want to open my own company, I will also earn money, provide for my family and even my husband,” Maria added.
Vlad Sitdikov supported the chosen one: “And, of course, so that we live in perfect harmony, right? And we never quarreled."
The other day, Channel One went on air new release program "Male and Female", dedicated to important topic- socialization and achievements of people with Down syndrome. One of the invited guests was Irina Khakamada’s daughter, 20-year-old actress Maria Sirotinskaya, and her boyfriend, 22-year-old world bench press champion Vlad Sitdikov. The couple told viewers about their lives, hobbies, a recent romantic trip to Greece, and also shared their wedding plans.
Maria and Vlad met at the theater and, according to Masha, it was love at first sight.
I went to the theater and saw Vlad there, he was rehearsing for a play... After that we had a mutual love. I immediately realized that I needed this person and he would be my support. I love him very much and will always be faithful to him.<...>My plans are to create a good family, marry my beloved, be with him always and have children.
When we met her, I found something in her that I couldn’t find before. This is loyalty, love, happiness. And, of course, she is kind, affectionate, beautiful girl. “I found the one with whom I would like to connect my life, once and for all,” said Vlad.
Maria Sirotinskaya and Vlad Sitdikov with Alexander Gordon and Evelina Bledans
Also, Vlad, who not only loves to read poetry, but also writes it himself, read a fragment of one of his works dedicated to Mary:
Years passed, I grew up in spite of the weather.
The road led me to Moscow, I’m standing at the threshold of the theater.
And there is euphoria in my head, suddenly I hear: “And I am Maria!”
Hit me like a tsunami...
Vlad and Maria have already introduced each other to their parents, and both parties approved the choice of their children. At the end of the conversation with the couple, host Alexander Gordon asked Maria a direct question: “When is the wedding?” Maria, smiling, modestly replied, “Not soon,” then Vlad entered the conversation.
Alexander, you are an experienced person. I would like you to become my matchmaker, since you know Machine’s mother well.
Alexander promised to talk with Irina Khakamada, since, according to him, Vlad made a very good impression on him.
We suggest you take a look full release program, in which Evelina Bledans and her son also took part:
Irina Khakamada’s daughter Maria Sirotinskaya, who suffers from Down syndrome, and her boyfriend Vlad Sitdikov decided to get married.
Daughter of a famous Russian politician- Maria Sirotinskaya - marries her friend Vlad Sitdikov.
The bride and groom themselves spoke about this in the “Male/Female” program on Channel One.
Both Masha and Vlad were born with a diagnosis of Down syndrome. But that doesn't stop them from living life to the fullest, study, play sports and make plans for the future. And the young people’s plans, as it turned out, are serious: Maria and Vlad are going to start a family. They have already introduced each other to their loved ones.
“My plans are to make a good family, marry my loved one and always be with him and have my own children. I want to open my own company, I will also earn money, provide for my family and even my husband,” said Maria Sirotinskaya.
But the lovers are still not going to rush into getting married. But Irina Khakamada’s potential son-in-law approached him right in the studio with a request to become his matchmaker, because the TV presenter is well acquainted with the mother of his beloved.
“I promise you that since I know Ira, I will definitely talk to her. I’ll tell you what impression you made on me, how happy Masha is next to you. I think it will grow together,” Gordon answered.
As you know, Masha - late child Irina Khakamada. She became a mother for the second time after 40. Irina hid the “special” girl from the public for a long time, but when she grew up, she began to actively take her with her to social events.
Irina has repeatedly said that she considers Masha completely normal person and communicates with her accordingly. True, raising children with Down syndrome is still a special story, notes Khakamada.
