One day a strange incident happened to me that changed my life. Now it's happening unexplained phenomena: all my wishes come true! Absolutely everyone - both good and bad.
A life-changing incident
This happened two years ago, on the feast of Epiphany. I was in rural areas. At night, I was woken up by the barking of a dog. I woke up and looked at the time, it was about three o'clock in the morning. The light from the lantern came through the window. I looked outside and saw a man who had entered the yard and was moving towards the house.
I remember this incident as clearly as now.
The man walked up to the door, pulled the door handle, turned around and walked away, not to the exit, but to the dog. I thought it was a thief, quickly got dressed and went out. I turned to this man and asked what he was doing in my yard at night. In response, the man silently approached me.
I had never seen his face before. It was slightly stained with blood. This man looked at me, took a key out of his pocket and handed it to me with the words: “I brought you the key.”
I angrily replied that I didn’t need any key and told him to leave.
-Where am I going to go? - asked the man.
I shouted, raising my voice, for him to go back where he came from. The man shook his head and left. I went back to bed and tried to sleep. About ten minutes passed when I suddenly remembered that the key that this man brought me was really mine.
I lost exactly the same key with the same string a month ago. “How does this person know that this is my key, that I lost it?” Until dawn I could not close my eyes, thinking about what it was.
Global changes
This experience completely changed my life. Something pushed me to do something I had never done before - I began to read a lot - books on esotericism, the development of intuition. I started taking various courses.
Somehow, naturally, I started meditating¹ and started working with affirmations². I especially often said the phrase: “All my wishes come true.”
And then inexplicable phenomena began to occur in my life. All my wishes began to come true - absolutely everything and in any case.
Both good and bad. As soon as you thought about something, it immediately came true.
Since then, I have asked for only my deepest desires to be fulfilled and treated this with great caution. I often think about that incident and that person - who he was and where he came from. Maybe, the time will come and I will find out.
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¹ Meditation is a type of mental exercise used as part of spiritual, religious or health practices, or special mental condition resulting from these exercises (
On any occasion, be it a birthday, New Year or a wedding, the heroes of the occasion are always wished health, money, love, but no one wishes good luck. But fortune plays a huge role in our lives. Who knows, maybe some mere trifle or an accidentally spoken word can turn our whole life upside down?
Now we will tell you 10 amazing stories, where fortune played a huge role in people's lives. By chance, they did not make any mistakes, and radically changed their lives.
It was like this, I moved to a new rented apartment, lived in it for about 2 weeks, and after all the moving, cleaning and cooking, I decided to relax and have a beauty day for myself. In general, I covered myself from head to toe with blue clay, I walked around the apartment and heard someone come inside...
I, in an Eva costume, blue as Avatar, met the gaze of a guy who was dumbfounded by what he saw. She hid in the kitchen and grabbed a knife. The guy took out a gas canister, and we began to find out who got here and how.
It turned out that the apartment belonged to this guy, and it was rented to me by my granny, who wanted to arrange personal life grandson. We still remember our showdown that day. But I never moved out of the apartment - we live in perfect harmony.
There was always one homeless guy hanging out near my house. One day he came up to me and asked me to give him money for lottery ticket. I didn’t believe it, but I gave him money.
And yesterday he came up to me and returned the money with the words: “I owe you to the death of my life! I bought a lottery and won 250 thousand! Thank you!"
To be honest, I almost burst into tears... I was incredibly pleased that with such a small amount I helped a person finally get back on his feet.
Not far from my house there is a small park. Since childhood, my sister and I love to walk there. There is one in the park mystical place, where my mother met our father and where my sister met her current husband.
So, today a guy ran into me at this very place. I apologized and helped me up... My whole family is already preparing for the wedding!
A couple of days ago our cat, Freddy, disappeared. The husband said that he ran away to die, because he was already 13 years old. Our 5-year-old son really missed his cat, and we couldn’t figure out how to explain everything to him.
Yesterday we were walking, I was planning my speech in my head, when suddenly I heard my son’s voice: “Mom, look!” I look, and in his hands exact copy Freddy when he was a kitten. Now new Freddy lives with us, and I told my son that old cat turned into a young man.
After that, my husband and I started thinking. What if cats really have 9 lives and each of them returns to their beloved owners, but in a new look?
Once again I was convinced that life loves jokes. My older sister dated a guy for 5 years, they broke up, and then my sister married Sasha. My brother dated a girl for 8 years, left her, and then met a wonderful girl - Sasha...
I dated a guy for 3 years. We recently broke up, after which I met a guy. Guess what his name is?
I found out about my husband’s mistress right at our wedding. She couldn’t control herself, burst into tears and ran away. I went to the metro and went wherever my eyes led me...
Of course, all the passengers looked sideways at me: a huge Wedding Dress, a girl in snot and tears - you rarely see such a sight. And then one young man, apparently deciding to lighten the mood, picked me up in his arms and carried me out of the carriage, as if he were a groom.
Thanks to fate. Now I am truly happy with my new husband!
I realized that he was my destiny when I found out that he was Alexander Alexandrovich! And all because I am also Alexandra Alexandrovna! Still, they continued the tradition and named their son Alexander!
Until I was 10 years old, I lived in Tashkent. My mother and aunt told me that in kindergarten I was friends with the girl Dasha and even promised to marry her.
Many years have passed since then, I moved to Moscow, and recently met a girl here. Our communication grew into something more. Her name was also Dasha, but at first I didn’t attach the slightest importance to this.
Over time we got to know each other better, and I told her the story about kindergarten. Incredibly, it turned out to be the same Dasha! We're getting married soon. The man said it, the man did it!
Once I lost my wallet, there were documents, money, cards and a photo of a cat... And two days later I found a phone in a minibus. I called the mother of the bereaved person and made an appointment.
I arrived and met the owner of the phone. He was very happy that there was still honest people. I told him that I recently lost my wallet myself, so I know what it’s like...
And then the guy took his wallet out of his pocket and asked if it was mine? I opened it, and there was a photo of my cat! You can't imagine how dumbfounded we were. All the money and cards were there. Now we're friends with this guy. It’s not for nothing that fate brought us together this way. Yet miracles still happen!
Back in the fall, my mother was diagnosed with cancer. Doctors said that the chances of recovery are slim. I constantly sat with her in the ward, and there was a cat at home, which was left alone.
Over time, I took the cat into the ward with my mother and me. On the very first day, the cat lay down on her mother and slept like that the whole day. The next morning they came to take tests and noticed that the cat was not breathing: she died...
And the next day we were told that the disease was going away and the tests were very good. This is some kind of miracle: the cat gave its life to its mother! We have no other explanation...
Have there been such fateful incidents in your life? If so, be sure to share them in the comments, because other people will be interested in reading about it!
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1. Influence of environment or chance.
2. The hidden “starting” point of the fatal incident.
3. Fate and chance in the story.
“Case” is such an incomprehensible and very familiar word. Quite often you have to deal with it even in Everyday life. But it is precisely the case that has some magical ability. Sometimes a lot depends on it in the life and fate of an individual. A case may, for example, lift the long-awaited veil of secrecy. Or it can dramatically change this or that situation or a person’s views on what is happening. But the strongest influence of chance is manifested in changing destinies. The emptiness that remains after this brings poison into the soul, poisoning and preventing us from further living in peace. Such an insidious incident becomes the subject of close attention of L. N. Tolstoy in the story “After the Ball.”
To confirm that chance plays one of the decisive roles in a person’s life, critic K. Lomunov says that the theme of the story was an actual incident. This is what he writes: “One of the writer’s brothers, Sergei Nikolaevich, living in Kazan, fell in love with the daughter of a local military commander and was going to marry her. On the eve of the day when Sergei Nikolaevich wanted to propose, he saw how the father of the future bride supervised the punishment of a soldier with spitsrutens, and refused the marriage.” So one incident ruined the lives of two lovers. The hero of Tolstoy's story has a less tragic case. It didn't come to the point of a marriage proposal. However, the incident had a dramatic impact on the life and views of “everyone respected Ivan Vasilyevich.”
When main character wants to tell his story, then the topic of environmental influence comes up in conversation. After all, it is she who educates a person. And therefore, when certain conditions are created, the lives of many people can be changed. But Ivan Vasilyevich rejects the opinion that new conditions are under the power of man, and not chance. “So you say that a person cannot understand on his own what is good and what is bad, that it’s all about the environment, that the environment is corroding. But I think it’s all a matter of chance,” he tells his interlocutors.
However, as the story progresses, quite a lot of random incidents arise, but only one of them radically changes the life of the main character.
And the first incident he talks about is connected with the image of his beloved: “I fell in love many times, but this was my strongest love.” How could a young man resist the regal appearance, the affectionate and cheerful smile, the charm sparkling eyes! It is probably difficult to say exactly why the fateful combination of circumstances chose exactly the most strong love, and she just faded away from the picture of the execution. However, this happened, and in this case it is simply impossible to change anything.
Another incident helped the main character see his beloved as often as possible. “I don’t know whether this is good or bad, but at that time we didn’t have any circles or theories at our university, but we were just young and lived as typical of youth: we studied and had fun.”
All random events, described above, create a special atmosphere that contributes to the awakening in Ivan Vasilyevich himself wonderful feeling on earth - love. The highest manifestation we see feelings “on the last day of Maslenitsa at the ball of the provincial leader,” which is described by the author in the most detail. From this ball begins the “hidden” starting point of a fatal incident that radically changes the life of the protagonist.
At the ball, even dancing with another, the lover “saw only the tall one, slim figure in a white dress with a pink belt, her radiant, flushed face with dimples and gentle, sweet eyes.” And new accidents only ignite the fire of love in the heart young man. The persistence of the “hostess in a diamond feronniere and with Elizabethan shoulders” gave the guests the opportunity to see the art of Varenka’s father in the dance. “Having waited for the start of the mazurka motif, he briskly stamped one foot, threw out the other, and his tall, heavy figure, now quietly and smoothly, now noisily and violently, with the clatter of soles and feet against feet, moved around the hall.” The colonel's grace and Varenka's lightness overflowed the young man's cup of love. “Just as it happens that after one drop pours out of a bottle, its contents pour out in large streams, so in my soul, love for Varenka freed all the ability of love hidden in my soul.”
A chain of incidents took shape in the boundless love of the protagonist. This feeling completely embraced him: “At that time I embraced the whole world with my love.” It was enough for him that he loved her. And again, chance reinforces a young, newly formed feeling.
A new accident in the life of the protagonist now leads to a destructive rather than a creative beginning. Happiness did not allow the hero to sleep; the stuffiness “drove” him out into the street for a walk. And then “hard, bad music” attracted the attention of Ivan Vasilyevich. The sounds of a flute and drum announced a new, but this time fatal, incident. “I began to look in the same direction and saw something terrible in the middle of the rows, approaching me.” It was a man who was beaten with sticks. And it was not a pleasant sight. But what struck the main character was Varenka’s father again. But now he was a completely different person. “The Colonel... sucked in air, puffing out his cheeks, and slowly released it through his protruding lip.” Varenka's father pretended that he did not recognize his daughter's gentleman. He just said to serve fresh spitzrutens. But the last chord of bad music were the words of the colonel addressed to one of the soldiers: “I will anoint you... Will you anoint me? Will you? Ivan Vasilyevich tried to escape from the horror, but could not do it. It seems that drumroll remained to resonate in his heart. Boundless melancholy, reaching the point of nausea, seemed to come out of the hero’s soul and eclipse the whole world. The young man tried to explain to himself what was happening, but he could not do it.
One incident, which took just a few minutes, changed the fate of the main character. Perhaps this also happened because he had no way of finding out real reasons such an event. “And without knowing, I could not enter military service, as he wanted before, and not only did not serve in the military, but he did not serve anywhere and, as you see, was no good.” Not only the boundless love for Varenka, but also self-confidence began to wane. “So this is what things happen and what changes and directs a person’s whole life.”
An accident made the young man look at things completely differently. the world. This world is filled not only with love. There is cruelty and rudeness in the world. And all these qualities, no matter how you hide them, accidentally appear over time. All this greatly affects the life of an individual. From Tolstoy's story it is clear that it is not people, not the environment, but chance that determines the life and destiny of every person on earth.
Remember: life is a journey, not a destination.
A hackneyed but relevant phrase. Live life to the fullest- feel every day, learn new things, and not sacrifice everything for one goal. Don't be discouraged if it doesn't work out at first. This is fine.
Be honest with yourself and others
Lying drains energy and makes a person unhappy. Just imagine how many lies you need to remember so as not to accidentally spill the beans. What happiness there is here. Besides, if you are not honest with yourself, you cannot grow and develop. And if you lie to others, then trust and intimacy disappear in the relationship.
People tell lies various reasons. Out of envy, out of reluctance to offend, fear of opening up or entering into... Being honest is difficult, but this is the only way to live life to the fullest.
Learn to accept yourself
We often dwell on past failures and spend too much time thinking about our own. weaknesses. We think about what we don’t like about ourselves, how to change it and believe that we should become different. Spending your life on such thoughts and events from the past means not noticing the present and being closed to new things in the future. Make a conscious decision to love yourself for who you are. Get rid of the burden of memories and negative thoughts.
Define your values
Having formulated your values, it will be easier for you to set life goals that do not contradict them. Stick to your convictions and don't let others lead you astray. After all, living in accordance with your principles is much more pleasant than constantly following the advice of others.
Stop putting yourself down
It is believed that self-criticism helps to develop, but research How to Stop the Self-Criticism and Feel Better About You have proven the negative impact of this approach both on the person himself and on his attitude towards others. The stricter you are with yourself, the higher your chances of treating others the same way. Belittling your merits will not help you become a better person and achieve your goals. Be kind to yourself.
Replace negative thoughts with attitudes. For example, instead of “I’m a failure,” tell yourself: “Things didn’t go according to plan. But I will figure out why this happened and will not make similar mistakes in the future. I will find a way to achieve what I want in another way.”
Analyze self-criticism logically. Instead of “I’m stupid, everyone in the group is smarter than me,” think about whether there are objective reasons to think so. Maybe you're just not preparing well enough for your classes. Maybe laziness is to blame, but not intelligence. By analyzing the thought in this way, you will understand what steps you need to take without belittling yourself.
Be flexible
Life is full of changes. Be open to new things and learn to adapt to changes, even if you don't like them at first. See them as opportunities to gain new experiences. This positive thinking will help develop flexibility.
Getting fired from Apple was the best thing that ever happened to me. The heavy burden of success was replaced by the carelessness of a beginner, less confident entrepreneur. I was freed to enter one of the most rewarding periods of my life.
Steve Jobs, American entrepreneur, CEO of Apple
Keep fit
Taking care of your body is another step towards living a full life. You only have one, and it's important to make sure it's healthy. It's hard to live rich life when it hurts here and stings there.
Eat right. Eat as many fruits, vegetables, and complex carbohydrates as possible. Try to avoid foods high in sugar, but still treat yourself to a piece of pie or a glass of wine from time to time.
Play sports. Regular exercise will help you feel healthier and happier.
Stop forcing yourself
People often force themselves to do things that are at odds with their values and desires. Compulsion causes irritation, frustration and sadness. If you get rid of this, then living life to the fullest will become easier.
As soon as “I should” appears in your thoughts, think about why you think so. For example, “I need to lose weight.” This may be the advice of a doctor or the desire of a person with a different perception of beauty. In the first case, changes are really necessary, in the second they can even be dangerous. Do only what is important to you, not what others demand.
Method 2. Go your own way
Leave your comfort zone
The more often you perform unusual actions, the higher your Anxiety Can Bring Out the Best your performance. How more difficult tasks you set before yourself, the faster you get used to the new and the calmer you perceive life difficulties. Getting out of your comfort zone helps you become more flexible, and we've already found out how important that is.
Start small. Go to a place you know nothing about. Go on a spontaneous trip or do something at work that you haven't done before.
Be realistic
Set goals according to your strengths, taking into account your skills and... Strive for what is important to you and don’t compete with others. Achieving what you want should depend only on your needs, but not on the desire to show off or prove something to someone.
Be prepared for something to go wrong
When a person lives life to the fullest, he takes risks. He makes decisions that have consequences. And sometimes they may not turn out as planned. It is important to understand that life is unpredictable and to be calm about the unexpected. The ability to be prepared for anything makes it possible to be one step ahead and calculate options for the development of events.
Look for opportunities to learn
Don't sit still and let life just take its course. Be active, learn new things, make your brain work. Analyze your experience and the experience of other people. This will help you be calmer difficult situations and will allow you to confidently move forward.
Know how to thank
Gratitude is not just a feeling - it is a lifestyle. It will help you overcome the traumas of the past, if you consider them not as pain, but as a valuable experience, and be grateful to life for it. It will strengthen relationships with loved ones, and without them it is extremely difficult to live a full life.
Tell family, friends and others important people how glad you are that you have them. Share gratitude, don’t be afraid to express it, and life will be filled with pleasure and harmony.
Appreciate every moment and don't focus on the bad. Appreciate the beauty of everyday life, be grateful to life even for the little things: a beautiful sunset, good weather and delicious coffee.
The more pleasant little things you notice, the better life will become.
Keep a diary
Try not just to record the events that happened, but to analyze them. How did you react, why did it happen, how did you feel then and now, and what would you do if this situation happened again? All this will show what is going well in life, and what needs more work.
Laugh
Laughter is the best medicine. It lowers stress hormone levels and improves mood. Plus it's contagious. If you laugh, others will laugh too, and this is the easiest way to create emotional and social connections.
Don't chase after material things
Too many things will not make you happier. Don't buy impulsively or try to relieve stress through shopping. Buy only what you really need.
If you have already accumulated a lot of useless things, donate them to charity. Get rid of everything you don't like and start living a material-free life.
A person picks up the emotions of others as easily as catching a cold. If you spend the day with happy people, you will start to feel better. If you communicate with those who are gloomy and dissatisfied with life, then this will also affect your mood. Only negative. Therefore, it is important not to waste time on toxic people.
Surround yourself with those who care about you, who respect you and others.
But that doesn't mean your friends and family can't give you constructive criticism. Sometimes you still need someone to point out mistakes. But it is important to feel that people do this with kindness, respect and care. That they actually help you become a better person.
Discuss your needs
Confidently express your thoughts and needs, but remember that others also have desires that need to be heard. Be open and honest, but don't blame or judge people.
It's good to honestly tell the person that he hurt you. Explain what exactly bothered you. It is bad to accuse him of inhumanity without a specific explanation of the reason.
To prevent people from interpreting your words as accusations, always say “I.” For example, “I felt like my needs weren’t important when you didn’t pick me up from work” instead of “You didn’t even pick me up from work, you don’t care about me.”
Instead of judging the actions of others, try to understand why they did it. Ask them to tell you more about the reasons, find out someone else’s point of view. If you still don’t agree with the opinion, tell us why and offer an alternative.
Be selfless
Often the thought that we deserve more prevents us from moving forward. Giving, but not receiving in return, we are in people, life, justice. It's hard to live life to the fullest when your head is so dark. Therefore, it is important to share love, kindness, warmth and care selflessly.
But this does not mean that you can allow your feet to be wiped on you. Stop any attempts to take advantage of your good attitude.
Forgive yourself and others
It's hard, but good for the soul. By forgiving, you will free yourself from stress, let go of accumulated negativity and feel lightness. Learn to forgive people despite their behavior, and this will help mental wounds heal.
It is important to forgive not only others, but also yourself. Stop thinking about mistakes and blaming yourself for what you did. The past cannot be changed. Use this experience as an opportunity to become a better person. Show yourself the same compassion you show others.
Accept people as they are
It can be difficult to communicate with someone who is so different from us. But don't try to change it and adjust it to suit yourself. Remember that every person is a unique individual who can teach you something new. Be kind and polite in any company. Enjoy the company of other people. Treat everyone the way you would like to be treated.
